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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46-53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's get to know each other, have a coffee/tea together and connect on some levels and see where it goes.

I am handsome, smart, and creative.

Music is a big part of my life.

I really enjoy pursuing growth and health in almost any direction - mind, body and soul.

I want to be your priority -- and you mine.

It's pretty simple, but not always easy...


This is one of my favorite quotes:

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Expanding love and compassion into every area of my life - even work. I work in business management and navigate the corporate
culture and business world as a peaceful warrior. In my non-work time, I am a friend, a father, a neighbor and enjoy making music
with other musicians. I like to keep fit and enjoy natural ways to blend fitness with life (hiking, swimming, walks, beach, Tai Chi,
yoga and the like).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Water fun: water skiing, wakeboarding, kayaking, paddle boarding, sailing, barefoot'n, canoeing, spinning, lifesaving, water=me.
Really good with my hands: fixing things, making things, creating, cleaning, cooking...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile. Kindness. Gentle spirit. Powerfully centered. Helpful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS. I enjoy self help books and reading about people and how they work. "A New Earth" is a great read for me right now.

MUSIC. Currently, I'm into the acoustic stuff - like Jack Johnson, Dave Matthews and acoustic versions of rock tunes.

MOVIES. For a long time I said my favorite movie was Top Gun, now I like movies like The Notebook and relational movies that are emotionally provoking and explore love.

FOOD. I love sushi and Japanese food. I enjoy any variety of really healthy foods. Occasionally, a nice steak or nicely cooked burger on the grill is good too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A grip of good books,
2. Healthy food & drinks,
3. My favorite guitar,
4. Someone to share life and love with,
5. A place to hike, roam, be in nature, water,
6. You.

(the order changes with the moments, eg 4 & 6 after a nice 5...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Growth in mind, body and soul. I also think about how to best help people and be in service.

Lately I am thinking a lot about relationship with self and others and how to graciously dance with people. We all have such a variety of rhythm and tones that we resonate with, so like a nice re-mix musical blend, I look for ways to make our music work together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With a small group of friends or 1:1 with a special soul.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like "chick flicks." (E.g., The Notebook)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You enjoy life and can find the higher purpose of things - even in the rough stuff.
** Please understand that I am often busy with work and my music and only sometimes on this site. So, if you do not hear back from me in a few days, if you interest me, you WILL hear back. I do care.