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33 Ventura, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:58am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
A little extra
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Be the Spock to my Kirk.

New News: Wine and books this weekend... *sigh* what a delight!

KS>NY (Westchester)>DC (DMV)> Southern California (Ventura County)

Just a nerd trying to find someone to geek out with!

I enjoy thinking, a good think and a good drink, wither it be coffee or wine. If you include a cheese in there then pretty much that's what I ask out of life. Sadly I must work to provide these lovely things to you, but that's not to bad as I enjoy my job.

I'm very friendly and fuzzy and warm... according to coworkers and friends alike. I enjoy a good laugh and while I see the serious side of life I think everyone should be meet with a smile.

I have friends! Not a total recluse so that maybe gets me a point or two. I love museums and bookstores of various kinds. I love science but it doesn't quite love me back.

Oh and I was told to put this on here by a friend... I'm a military historian too.. yeah I know about war and battles and have seen some crazy shit! So ask me an obscure military question and I can have an answer!
What I’m doing with my life
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"I became an archivist because I am nosy." - quote from a former boss and a kick-ass lady. This is why I do what I do. I am endlessly curious about everything. Seriously, you could be a worm gardener and I would ask you a thousand questions about it.

My current hobbies include cooking, making budgets, going to book clubs, painting, writing, long walks on the beach... yes it's true and fun as well! Also baseball season is now in full gear so watching my teams!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can read situations pretty decently though I have a bitch of a time figuring out how to make them go my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am fluffy and friendly :)

I never mastered that... mysterious vibe that apparently is very appealing in people, I'm pretty much an open book and I wear my thoughts and my feelings on my face and I don't have much of a filter, though I am endlessly kind and warm and fuzzy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) I have a ton of favorite books I read a ton mostly non fiction but enjoy fan fic too! In a few book clubs around town as well.

B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary enough.

C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music.

D) Im a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have a thing for cheeses.

E) T.V. usually what ever sport is on, cooking shows, Mad Men! a House Hunters or two as well.

F) Art! Loveeee Frida Kahlo, Edward Hopper and Picaso are a few of my favorites, but I love going to art museums and finding out what strikes me. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm starting to get my California legs... starting to feel a grove here... it's starting to feel like this is a place I could call home. Humm.... you never know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The cool answer: Meeting new people and trying out new things!

The real answer: At home, reading, using the TV as white noise and pissing off the cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would eat cat or dog if cooked properly... and lets face it, when they are cooking Guinea Pig in Peru on the Discovery channel, that stuff looks like all sorts of tasty.
You should message me if
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I'm 33 ... have your shit well on the way to being figured out... I do.

Ambition sooooooo sexy.

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