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33 • Ventura, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–39
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 10:58am
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently)
New News: Wine and books this weekend... *sigh* what a delight!
KS>NY (Westchester)>DC (DMV)> Southern California (Ventura County)
Just a nerd trying to find someone to geek out with!
I enjoy thinking, a good think and a good drink, wither it be coffee or wine. If you include a cheese in there then pretty much that's what I ask out of life. Sadly I must work to provide these lovely things to you, but that's not to bad as I enjoy my job.
I'm very friendly and fuzzy and warm... according to coworkers and friends alike. I enjoy a good laugh and while I see the serious side of life I think everyone should be meet with a smile.
I have friends! Not a total recluse so that maybe gets me a point or two. I love museums and bookstores of various kinds. I love science but it doesn't quite love me back.
Oh and I was told to put this on here by a friend... I'm a military historian too.. yeah I know about war and battles and have seen some crazy shit! So ask me an obscure military question and I can have an answer!
My current hobbies include cooking, making budgets, going to book clubs, painting, writing, long walks on the beach... yes it's true and fun as well! Also baseball season is now in full gear so watching my teams!
I never mastered that... mysterious vibe that apparently is very appealing in people, I'm pretty much an open book and I wear my thoughts and my feelings on my face and I don't have much of a filter, though I am endlessly kind and warm and fuzzy.
B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary enough.
C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music.
D) Im a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have a thing for cheeses.
E) T.V. usually what ever sport is on, cooking shows, Mad Men! a House Hunters or two as well.
F) Art! Loveeee Frida Kahlo, Edward Hopper and Picaso are a few of my favorites, but I love going to art museums and finding out what strikes me. :)
The real answer: At home, reading, using the TV as white noise and pissing off the cat.
Ambition sooooooo sexy.
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