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34 Ventura, CA Woman


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  • Ages 28–44
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Last online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Be the Spock to my Kirk.

New News: I got sick, it was a bitch.... did a podcast! Now I have a podcast... yes. Easy week this week though, or at least a short one I can't wait yeah!!

KS>NY (Westchester)>DC (DMV)> Southern California (Ventura County)

Just a nerd trying to find someone to geek out with!

I enjoy thinking, a good think and a good drink, wither it be coffee or wine. If you include a cheese in there then pretty much that's what I ask out of life. But in all honesty this is very true, I don't usually bond with anyone unless there is a strong mental connection. I am more forgiving of looks and other matters but if I don't have that strong exchange of ideas then chances are that I'm simply not going to be interested.

I'm very friendly and fuzzy and warm... according to coworkers and friends alike. I enjoy a good laugh and while I see the serious side of life I think everyone should be meet with a smile.

I have friends! Not a total recluse so that maybe gets me a point or two. I love museums and bookstores of various kinds. I love science but it doesn't quite love me back.

Oh and I was told to put this on here by a friend... I work in the military field and have seen some crazy photos and documents of some wicked battles. No joke. War... not just for men anymore! (Side note, I'm actually a pacifist and how I ended up working for the department I do still baffles me.)
What I’m doing with my life
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"I became an archivist because I am nosy." - quote from a former boss and a kick-ass lady. This is why I do what I do. I am endlessly curious about everything. Seriously, you could be a worm gardener and I would ask you a thousand questions about it.

My current hobbies include cooking, making budgets, going to book clubs, local theater, writing, long walks on the beach... yes it's true and fun as well! Also baseball season is now in full gear so watching my teams!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can read situations pretty decently though I have a bitch of a time figuring out how to make them go my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am fluffy and friendly :)

I never mastered that... mysterious vibe that apparently is very appealing in people, I'm pretty much an open book and I wear my thoughts and my feelings on my face and I don't have much of a filter, though I am endlessly kind and warm and fuzzy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) I have a ton of favorite books I read a ton mostly non fiction but enjoy fan fic too! In a few book clubs around town as well.

Currently reading: The Bell Jar, Diary of a Fat Bride (tons of funny short stories by someone who can write them!) and reading up on the craft of writing, yes I am a nerd and re-reading a ton of my fav fan fics.

B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary enough.

Current To Watch: Mocking Jay part 2 coming out soon yeahhh!!! I love the movies and books.

Current Theater: No theater coming up but that will change because it always changes :)

C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music.

Current Listens: One of my friends was talking about classic jazz and now I want to listen to all the Ella and Billie and yes.. please!

D) Im a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have a thing for cheeses.

Currently Cooking: It is tooo fucking hot so Panara is my friend right now... *eyes Taco Hell*... maybe that too... back to cooking when it freaking cools down!

E) T.V. usually what ever sport is on, cooking shows, a House Hunters or two as well.

Currently watching: Baseball (my home team is making a run for it this year so I'm super excited!!), Food Network Star, Chopped and Rachel Maddow with a side of Last Word and Lock Up!

F) Art! Loveeee Frida Kahlo, Edward Hopper and Picaso are a few of my favorites, but I love going to art museums and finding out what strikes me. :) I found some amazing art in San Diego and it was lovely!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Currently ... the elections, budgets, trying to find ways to write for my profession and figuring out where I belong in all that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The cool answer: Meeting new people and trying out new things!

The real answer: At home, reading, using the TV as white noise, cuddling with the cat and oddly enough going to a lot of local plays... so far they have all been pretty good and cheap! Working on my podcast on Sundays and trying to write...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Avid Fan-fic reader... yeah. I'm pretty open on things so there isn't much to hid ... also everything I think is written on my face.
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