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33 Ventura, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:06pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Be the Spock to my Kirk.

New News: Book clubs and live music and the Super Bowl... this week will be good!

KS>NY (Westchester)>DC (DMV)> Southern California (Ventura County)

A nerd from your basic middle class family. I just moved from DC and do archival and museum work, like a good nerd should. I've traveled but currently my passport is expired, need to fix that. I'm in the middle of reading books about sleeping and eating along with my fan fiction.

I have discovered that there is an East Coast bias... I knew coming from the Midwest that there was a coastal bias but damn.... everything seems to be centered around the East Coast... so I'm getting a bit defensive about the West Coast.

I like going out to eat ... I have to admit, as a newbie with not that many friends around that I have really missed exploring restaurants with a close friend or two.

I enjoy learning things then reflecting on them. I have a tendency of wanting to get deep into a subject material and over thinking things.

These are just a few of thing things that make me fantastic!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"I became an archivist because I am nosy." - quote from a former boss and a kick-ass lady. This is why I do what I do. I am endlessly curious about everything. Seriously, you could be a worm gardener and I would ask you a thousand questions about it.

My current hobbies include cooking and making budgets! Only one of those I enjoy doing, guess which one!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can read situations pretty decently though I have a bitch of a time figuring out how to make them go my way.

“ Don’t settle. Don’t finish crappy books. If you don’t like the menu, leave the restaurant. If you’re not on the right path, get off it. ”
Chris Brogan
Trying my hardest to live this way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am fluffy and friendly :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) I have a ton of favorite books but here are just a few of them that I reallllllly like: Glory for Me, I was Amelia Earhart, The Sex Book, The Blind Assassin (I adore M. Atwood, anything by her is good in my book), Columbine, Stiff, Valley of the Dolls, Still Missing, The Hunger Games, and fan fiction... I have no shame, some of it is really great stuff!

B)Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Bridget Jones's Diary, Sliding Doors, Italian for Beginners, Kissing Jessica Stine, The Best Years of Our Lives, Notorious, Match Point - I tend to like Woody Allen as long as he isn't in the movies.... he freaks me out in that... dude you are wayyyy to into teen chicks to be anything other than creepy.

C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music.

D) Im a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Oddly enough for a midwest white girl Mexican is a comfort food as well as a good cheeseburger and a nice steak. I love Indian and Mediterranean food, (goat and lamb yes please) and as a coastal transplant (currently going from East to West) have a healthy love for fish, crab and everything in between :) I realize this is meat heavy.... eekk love the veggies too just ... I learned how to cook heavy mid-west/minor south style and the things I tend to do off the top of my head are steaks and fish and chicken... but I do love to cook veggies and such! I just need a recipe or something.

E) T.V. -Got cable back and am watching my sports again! A few of my favorite shows though are Star Trek - Grew up on TNG but have a love of TOS and Spock... accidentally fangirled when I found a geek store in Belfast and scared off some of the locals when I found Spock ears... not my best moment, Mad Men

F) Art! Loveeee Frida Kahlo, Edward Hopper and Picaso are a few of my favorites, but I love going to art museums and finding out what strikes me. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What can I do to impress my bosses, or if not impress them then at least prove that I'm a hard worker and want to improve the museum and show that I'm good at my job... need projects!! (Then sometimes I just want to go in the back and get dusty with documents.)

Also I think I'm starting to get my California legs... starting to feel a grove here... it's starting to feel like this is a place I could call home. Humm.... you never know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The cool answer: Meeting new people and trying out new things!

The real answer: At home, reading, using the TV as white noise and pissing off the cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I would eat cat or dog if cooked properly... and lets face it, when they are cooking Guinea Pig in Peru on the Discovery channel, that stuff looks like all sorts of tasty.
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I'm 33 ... have your shit well on the way to being figured out... I do.

In addition I'm going to be a newbie in the area so any tips and thoughts on where to go and what to do! Friendship welcome too!!

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