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34 Ventura, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 6:02pm
Relationship Type
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I have a pretty full life and I enjoy it :) I make time for the things that are important and I'm looking for someone to come along with me on the ride! I enjoy a good think and a good drink.

I'm friendly and warm... according to coworkers and friends alike. I enjoy a good laugh and while I see the serious side of life I think everyone should be meet with a smile. I'm a logical thinker on serious things such as work, politics and planning life style, but a romantic and artist on things such as writing, reading and over all life style.

You (maybe?)
Logical, planner, educated and career minded, down with emotions but perhaps wears them on a sleeve under a heavy coat, curious by nature is a wonderful thing!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an archivist. I am endlessly curious - you could be a worm gardener and I would ask you a thousand questions about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative projects, especially writing, currently working on a novel.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My contagious laugh!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) I have a ton of favorite books I read mostly non fiction but enjoy fan fic too! In a few book clubs around town as well.

Currently reading: The Fire in Fiction, re-reading the Hunger Games and some fun short stories.

B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary enough.

Current To Watch: Mocking Jay part 2 coming out soon yeahhh!!! I love the movies and books.

Current Theater: Flying H, Moore Park, going to a one act at the Flying H soon and looking forward to On Golden Pond down the road. I love my theater buddies!!

C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music.

Current Listens: Would things be easier if there was a right way... yeah replaying the hell out of that song!

D) I'm a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have a thing for cheeses.

Currently Cooking: Steak and about to start baking baklava for the holidays!

E) T.V. usually what ever sport is on, specifically the Royals, KU Jayhawks, Nationals. I am also a political junky and MSNBC is my usual channel, Rachel Maddow and Chris Hayes are my go to shows. I also enjoy cooking shows, a House Hunters or two as well.

Currently watching: Debates, news, and some HGTV.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectually stimulating conversation
A couple of good friends
Resource of some sort to research and write
Good food
Some sort of stability, I enjoy exploring I just need a place to come back to
One to grow on :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Currently ... the elections, writing, how to be creative and thinking of the holidays in so much as, hang with friends and family or sink into the couch with a good book.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, I am a friendly introvert so I enjoy going out and doing things. I go to plays and book clubs and an evening out once in a while. That being said after a few nights of heavy socializing I need a day or so to recover so depending on how the rest of the week goes depends on what I want to do on Friday :) Just ask though!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Avid Fan-fic reader... yeah. I'm pretty open on things so there isn't much to hid ... also everything I think is written on my face.
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