Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Be the Spock to my Kirk.
New News: Boozin' Bitches and Ojai Storytellers this weekend! The
question is, what is going to tire me out more, my age group or the
little old retired ladies... sadly my bet is on the little old
retired ladies.. they have Ojai planned out!
KS>NY (Westchester)>DC (DMV)> Southern California (Ventura
Just a nerd trying to find someone to geek out with!
I enjoy thinking, a good think and a good drink, wither it be
coffee or wine. If you include a cheese in there then pretty much
that's what I ask out of life. Sadly I must work to provide these
lovely things to you, but that's not to bad as I enjoy my
I'm very friendly and fuzzy and warm... according to coworkers and
friends alike. I enjoy a good laugh and while I see the serious
side of life I think everyone should be meet with a smile.
I have friends! Not a total recluse so that maybe gets me a point
or two. I love museums and bookstores of various kinds. I love
science but it doesn't quite love me back.
Oh and I was told to put this on here by a friend... I work in the
military field and have seen some crazy photos and documents of
some wicked battles. No joke. War... not just for men anymore!
(Side note, I'm actually a pacifist and how I ended up working for
the department I do still baffles me.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"I became an archivist because I am nosy." - quote from a former
boss and a kick-ass lady. This is why I do what I do. I am
endlessly curious about everything. Seriously, you could be a worm
gardener and I would ask you a thousand questions about it.
My current hobbies include cooking, making budgets, going to book
clubs, painting, writing, long walks on the beach... yes it's true
and fun as well! Also baseball season is now in full gear so
watching my teams!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can read situations pretty decently though I have a bitch of a
time figuring out how to make them go my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am fluffy and friendly :)
I never mastered that... mysterious vibe that apparently is very
appealing in people, I'm pretty much an open book and I wear my
thoughts and my feelings on my face and I don't have much of a
filter, though I am endlessly kind and warm and fuzzy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A) I have a ton of favorite books I read a ton mostly non fiction
but enjoy fan fic too! In a few book clubs around town as
B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that
shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some
drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary
C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I
listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the
D) Im a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have
a thing for cheeses.
E) T.V. usually what ever sport is on, cooking shows, Mad Men! a
House Hunters or two as well.
F) Art! Loveeee Frida Kahlo
, Edward Hopper and
Picaso are a few of my favorites, but I love going to art museums
and finding out what strikes me. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm starting to get my California legs... starting to feel a grove
here... it's starting to feel like this is a place I could call
home. Humm.... you never know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The cool answer: Meeting new people and trying out new
The real answer: At home, reading, using the TV as white noise and
pissing off the cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would eat cat or dog if cooked properly... and lets face it, when
they are cooking Guinea Pig in Peru on the Discovery channel, that
stuff looks like all sorts of tasty.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm 33 ... have your shit well on the way to being figured out... I
Ambition sooooooo sexy.
Message me if you want to share something.
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.