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34 Ventura, CA Woman


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  • Ages 28–44
  • Near me
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Last online
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5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Be the Spock to my Kirk. I'm just looking for a nerd to geek out with.

New News: Shut down now scheduled for Dec 11 happy early holidays!! *rolls eyes* At least it was avoided this time. On happier news this weekend will hopefully be packed with writing and creativity!

I enjoy thinking, a good think and a good drink.

I'm very friendly and fuzzy and warm... according to coworkers and friends alike. I enjoy a good laugh and while I see the serious side of life I think everyone should be meet with a smile. I'm a logical thinker on serious things such as work, politics and planning life style, but a romantic and artist on things such as writing, reading and over all life style.

You (maybe?)
Logical, planner, educated and career minded, down with emotions but perhaps wears them on a sleeve under a heavy coat, curious by nature is a wonderful thing!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"I became an archivist because I am nosy." - quote from a former boss and a kick-ass lady. This is why I do what I do. I am endlessly curious about everything. Seriously, you could be a worm gardener and I would ask you a thousand questions about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can read situations pretty decently though I have a bitch of a time figuring out how to make them go my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am fluffy and friendly :)

I never mastered that... mysterious vibe that apparently is very appealing in people, I'm pretty much an open book and I wear my thoughts and my feelings on my face and I don't have much of a filter, though I am endlessly kind and warm and fuzzy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) I have a ton of favorite books I read a ton mostly non fiction but enjoy fan fic too! In a few book clubs around town as well.

Currently reading: The Fire in Fiction, Left Hand of Darkness, some books on the history of food.

B) I like the classics, found a great theater around my place that shows older films and I love that. I prefer comedies and some drama, but I don't do horror movies, real life is scary enough.

Current To Watch: Mocking Jay part 2 coming out soon yeahhh!!! I love the movies and books.

Current Theater: Fiddler on the Roof and Flying H now on the books! Yeahhh.

C) I'm pretty much open to anything and listen to most things. I listen to lyrics and find the poetry in them, then listen to the actual music.

Current Listens: One of my friends was talking about classic jazz and now I want to listen to all the Ella and Billie and yes.. please!

D) I'm a foodie, Ill try anything once!! Big carnivore but also have a thing for cheeses.

Currently Cooking: Back to steaks, planning on doing baklava again soon just need to go shopping for the stuffs :)

E) T.V. usually what ever sport is on, cooking shows, a House Hunters or two as well.

Currently watching: Baseball, tennis, Food Network Star, Chopped and Rachel Maddow with a side of Last Word and Lock Up!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectually stimulating conversation
A couple of good friends
Resource of some sort to research and write
Good food
Some sort of stability, I enjoy exploring I just need a place to come back to
One to grow on :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Currently ... the elections, budgets, trying to find ways to write for my profession and figuring out where I belong in all that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, I am a friendly introvert so I enjoy going out and doing things. Recently went to a star gazing thing at a park and it was sooo cool! That being said after a few nights of heavy socializing I need a day or so to recover so depending on how the rest of the week goes depends on what I want to do on Friday :) Just ask though!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Avid Fan-fic reader... yeah. I'm pretty open on things so there isn't much to hid ... also everything I think is written on my face.
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