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55 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:29pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just took my first summer-off in 25 years mixing hiking, backpacking,, a long canoe trip and a cross-country bike tour. It was sort of a big deal for me.

I'm vagabond of sorts and have done this stuff a long time, coming and going from Portland. You don't have to be this way. Forty hour, year-round work left me burned out and unfulfilled and a new life emerged. Hobbies, volunteering, self-improvement, home projects keep me busy.

Recent life events have me challenging thoughts about people and lifestyle: who belongs in or out of my circle; boundaries, possessions, monogamy vs. non-monogamy, fears, more. It's good to challenge and refresh one's beliefs. I'm drawn to connections, learning about people, understanding and letting time resolve the eventual direction.

My interests go far beyond the outdoors, jeez I'm in my 50's -- I can remodel a bathroom, read some history, create something in my workshop, distinguish art nouveau from art deco, name the notes of a minor 7th chord, and definitely know better than pitch to David Ortiz on a 3-0 count. I clean up in trivial pursuit.

Other factoids:
I'm actually pretty light-hearted. I giggle at little nothings throughout the day. I smile and nod to others when I’m out running.

I won't mug for the camera and desecrate an inspirational view by striking a yoga pose.

Trusting and dutiful in the Myers-Briggs sense: ISFJ
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Consciously growing my circle of people which can be pretty diverse. I've kept the company of belly dancers to soccer moms to PhD's.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Letting people be themselves, respecting their space and other friendships.

Not being the guy who goes off on women that don't reply to me online. BUT...a "thanks, but no thanks" would feel pretty good at times. The online thing is a brutal environment.

Giving just the right change to a cashier in order to minimize the amount of coins I receive in return.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a breakfast guy with a favorite spot or two. Time rich/cash poor--I cook. And most of the best stuff I ever eat is right out of my kitchen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Challenges, education, touch, proper footware, lessons learned from mom & dad, waking up at some ungodly hour and seeing the cat's face 2 inches away.
You should message me if
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*You have a interest in travel, learning, challenging and bettering yourself
*Your life involves a routine of fitness.
*In a large way you feel something unconventional about yourself
*You're looking to add interesting people to your life.