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54 M Portland, OR

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
In short, I am one of several billion carbon based life forms with opposed digits and bipedal locomotion. Therefore I am unique.

I enjoy women but lead a bit of unusual life, being out of town for parts of the year either working or having fun with my interests. It keeps me alive! Portland is more a “home base” than a “home”. So conventional expectations in relationships leave me feeling pretty restrained and my lifestyle requires someone a bit different.

I giggle at little nothings throughout the day. I smile and nod to other runners when I’m out running.

I won't desecrate an inspirational view by striking a yoga pose.

I’ve qualified for food stamps each of the past 10 years but have not accepted them. My credit score is north of 800.

I once studied Spanish…I'm eager to refresh and go south!

I fought a disease in recent years that for awhile left me unable to walk or eat. And I still live with a chance (ever decreasing, thankfully) of being told that I have 6 weeks left...and to that, well...I recently rode my bicycle across the country. Nice trip, y’all should give it a go

Zone 2 training really requires patience.

I just made the coolest storage shelves. My workshop is a small but active place.

I care part-time for my dear Mom.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking much of the year off with much planned. It's time.

Consciously growing my circle of people, which can be pretty diverse. My interests vary and I've kept the company of belly dancers to soccer moms to PhD's.
I’m really good at
Letting people be themselves, respecting their space and other friendships.

I'm introspective and can look at myself critically to see where I need to grow or change for a better life. Even if it's scary.

Delivering a clever little line that brings a smile to someone.

Giving just the right change to a cashier in order to minimize the amount of coins I receive in return.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall. Unforced. Finding humor and intrigue with the simple and ordinary.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
DIY manuals, travel & natural history guides, plus a spattering of non-fiction, science and biographies.

I love maps. Got a big box of 'em. Nothing like laying out a few maps on the floor to inspire the next trip.

We're all creative and artful in some way, not always in the standard music/art realm. I sometimes surprise myself in finding unique solutions to things.

I can definitely get around a kitchen, keeping a small arsenal of cook books handy.
The six things I could never do without
Challenges, education, touch, proper footware, lessons learned from mom & dad, waking up at some ungodly hour and seeing the cat's face 2 inches away.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I can't filter OKC members by their carbon footprint.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends