I'm intelligent, sensual, passionate (in a general as well as a relationship sense), hedonistic, witty (but probably not as much as I might like to think), intensely (blindly) loyal, compassionate, often unintentionally arrogant-sounding, liberal, a great conversationalist and sexually flexible (see below).
The above probably sounds contradictory to some but, as i said, I'm the last person who should attempt to describe me.
I've been on something of a spiritual journey over the last five years. I stopped working as an IT professional and retrained for a new role that is much more poorly paid but more satisfying and which I am wary of stating on this site (but I'll happily reveal this privately to anyone interested). The journey involved (inter alia) my realising and accepting that I am bi- or pan- or pomo- sexual (all unhelpful labels but they'll do in the absense of anything else I am aware of or I can come up with myself) and that I can relate sexually and emotionally to both sexes. This may be an immediate disqualifier for some, but it's who I am and I'm not going to pretend otherwise anymore. It doesn't mean I cannot enter into a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with anyone. It does mean, for the moment at least, I will not promise to be in an exclusive partnership with anyone but when I am with someone, then I'm with them in every sense at that moment. I suspect I will want to settle with someone eventually and at the moment I feel that in my ideal world that "someone" would really be a mixed gender couple.