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31 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hi thanks for visiting me. Still on the fence about this site but I'm an eternal optimist so here I am and here you are. I just moved back from San Diego and am interested in meeting new people. Yeaaaaaaaah!

INFJ. Taurus. Recording artist. Medical enthusiast. I easily adapt to people, ideas, and environments so I have a large amount of interests. Bay Area native and I have 2 degrees: bio and philo. I'm currently working towards a masters in medicine MPAS. I'm very open and trusting until it is parlayed. I am confident and am also a great conversationalist but if I meet a woman I like I may get 1-2 nervous butterflies - I hide it well. I'm here for the same reason you are: I want to expand my options for meeting a companion I can laugh with. I'm very monogamous and have been my whole life. I'm a fun person so I need someone that can keep up with my energy.

ADJECTIVES (i consider myself): genuine, intelligent, playful, sensual, honest, kind, loyal, sweet, silly, clever, humble, a bit nerdy but in a cool way, I'm incredibly curious. I can be a gentleman if you are into that. I enjoy giving compliments, receiving them is cool. Intelligence, playfulness, and humility are important to me.
I'm sarcastic.......................................................... sometimes.

FUN THINGS I ENJOY: Running and swimming to stay in shape (I'm in training mode), anything beach related, hiking, sporting events, art, culture, Stand Up Paddle boarding, exploring the Bay, traveling to different cities, techno festivals, producing music, dive bars, breweries, trying new places to eat, making people laugh, and developing inside jokes. Overall, I have an enormous amount of interests and am pretty upbeat.

If any of these apply to you, you're off to a great start. I'm much cooler in person, I bet you are too. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on becoming a Physicians Assistant (PA). I'm a licensed CPT - phlebotomist that draws blood. I'm motivated, I have goals, and try to reach my full potential, daily. Thanks Aristotle.

When I'm not doing the above, I am a music producer. I also travel and play dance music in other cities - next up is Denver, then onto Austin and Dallas! I've never been to Texas, excite!! I plan tours for some artists, so I suppose I'm a booking agent as well. I'd like to start a record label in the near future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making this profile, this is long, my bad. Cooking, I know how to use most can openers too. I'm a bit of a charmer but a terrible flirt i.e. I suck at picking up on it. Giving advice and making people feel comfortable. Making people laugh but sometimes they just laugh at me. I guess the desired result is still there. Philosophy and objective dialogue or debates. Russian, Japanese, and bad mobster accents. Oh! and back and foot massages. I pretty much kill it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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At 6' 2", 190lbs people have often said I have the strength of Hercules and the flexibility of Gumby. Gumbercules!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Plato, Aristotle, non-fiction, new medical findings
Poems: Percy Bysshe Shelley
Films: Dumb and Dumber, The Fifth Element

Music: I'm completely into music. It is my life. I produce it, play it, promote it, listen to it, share it. From classical music to techno, from Billie Holiday to Deftones, from Portishead to The Naked and Famous, from Pink Floyd to Tool, seriously there is no room here for it all. However, techno reigns supreme (music producer, duh).
Food: I have a strict diet of everything. I'm addicted to pho. I can make an amazing beach/picnic sandwich and I am pretty good in the kitchen. I don't like eggs for breakfast.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious food, drink, and air:

1) Music
2) A comfortable bed & nice sheets, you can't put a price on this
3) Humor
4) Good conversation
5) My laptop, I'm always on this thing.
6) GPS and Google Maps are so clutch in the bay area.

6 Things I COULD do without:
- lack of parking in the city
- shaving my face
- mayonnaise
- duckface
- The screenshots of yourself on your phone. That's just lazy and not even trying.
- folding my laundry, it's a battle every week.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How no one has opened up a kinko's type store in Bel Air called 'Fresh Prints'. You could make millions if you ask me. If mermaids who never get married eventually accumulate a bunch of catfish. As a philosopher, I often think about the Fundamental structure of the world and how my worldview can best resemble it. When someone is telling a joke that is really not funny but they laugh anyways, which in turn makes me laugh. :) I have always wondered what animals do when no one is home. Although agonizing yet rewarding, I try to find the right record label for my music. I like Penguins.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Producing music in my studio, playing a show, or being a relaxing, homebody Taurus. I use Fridays to unwind in some fashion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Somehow I ended up with a cute little black cat yet I'm mildly allergic to him (itchy). Weird because I like dogs. Other people have claimed they were allergic to cats but were not allergic to him either.

That's not really juicy enough, hmmmm I just deleted my facebook. I don't know, I'm open not a private person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
For any reason, don't be shy. I admire women that take the initiative. I don't have a "type" of woman, it changes when I become smitten by someone new. Blue eyes and Virgos are pretty awesome though.

You like: anything you have read so far, sharing the big spoon role, dancing, going to music festivals, intelligent conversations or just like to BS.

You are kind, affectionate, appreciative, and enjoy the same.

*Please don't email me if you consider yourself pretentious, hipster, protest anything, or live for burning man. It would never work out.*

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