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49 M Kapolei, HI

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 29
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Relationship Status
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Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm very outgoing and easy to talk to. I enjoy travel, movies, photography, hiking, scuba, and snorkeling. I love animals and have rescued many stray and orphaned animals over the years. I'm good with kids, but don't have any of my own. I'm honest and sincere, and hope you are too. I have a good sense of humor, I'm passionate and affectionate, but I also enjoy a good conversation. I like to listen to jazz, rock, classical, blues, alternative - I love all types of music, but I don't often go to loud nightclubs. I'm educated and well read. I have a serious side, but you really need to have a sense of humor to fully appreciate me. I believe it is possible to be both mature and youthful. I like to keep fit and enjoy being active, and all sorts of outdoor activities. I also enjoy indoor activities (museums, art galleries, movies...) I love to travel - I've been to over 40 countries on 6 continents. I am fairly new to being single and haven't dated in years, but I would like some female companionship. If that just means having someone to talk to or watch a movie with, that's fine. If that leads to something more then that's OK too. Not looking for a long term relationship at the moment, but one never knows what will happen. It seems if you go looking for someone you will never find them - it's the people you just sort of stumble upon that change your life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Starting a new chapter
I’m really good at
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Cooking (and I make a killer cappuccino)

The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm short, have a full head of hair, and I have a warm smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Brave New World, Silent Spring, The Brain that Changes Itself, Everyone Poops
Movies: Blade Runner; Casablanca; The Last of the Mohicans, the first 45 minutes of Braveheart
TV: The Mentalist; Sherlock (BBC); Mad Men; Firefly, BSG
Music: Vivaldi; Red Hot Chili Peppers; Green Day; Hooverphonic, Muse, Joseph Haydn, Papa Wemba, Ottmar Liebert
Food: Indian; Greek; Thai; Italian; Japanese; My own cooking
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport
My pets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nearly every profile on here says they are looking for a man who is funny and can make them laugh. I gotta wonder; do clowns get a lot of action?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My plans to be spontaneous fell through at the last minute.
You should message me if
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you are feeling bold, or maybe just curious.