I am a honest loving , caring person I just moved back to the Bay Area a few weeks ago , I am still working on getting established in here gradually .
I am a man that would not do a woman wrong , I know every woman has heard that before but if a woman got to know the real me she would see that I am not lying at all .
In the past I had many other relationships , the three I had were never honest with me , did things behind my back , I never did any of that to them but still it was done to me so that showed me that one that they did not know what they wanted at all , they really did not love themselves , me.
I do know what I want in a relationship with a woman I always have in fact ever since I was in my teen years , I know that's near to be if at all unheard of even for a guy but it is true , even now I know what I want in a woman , in a relationship , more.
I can honestly say that when I am with a woman that I am in a relationship with I stay with her , never stray away at all.
No matter what my situation is I would like to have a woman support me , help me through things as I would do for , with the woman.
I do not want a woman who thinks she is better then everyone else that is not over confidence that near the basis of non reality depending how far she takes it, its not logical on any level.
Honesty , love are two of many of the important things as well as support is also in a relationship , marriage with out those , other positive things there is no real relationship, no real love for one another either.
I have many sayings that I stand by , they are > Beauty comes from with in its not the outer shell & Actions Speak Louder Then Words , Fashion , make up does not make the woman the woman makes the woman , they both do not make the woman beautiful what does make a woman beautiful is who she truthfully is from with in her- Speaking of make up to me a woman does not have to wear make up women are already beautiful as I said before beauty comes from with her...
I do not listen nor follow , care what society says or thinks about any thing even about me .
We are our own person , I am not one to care what society thinks , says about me , try to get me to do as if I do not do many of the things that I have to do already.
I know that we all do what we can the best we can no matter what it is we do not need society to try to tell us we are doing things wrong or any other thing.
I do plan to be married with a family of my own .
I do not deal with things such as i mind games of any level or sort , I know that women say that men play mind games but I am not that man that does that , if the woman has had that , happen to her, has been cheated on , done wrong by her ex it does not mean that I would do the same so in short do not make me pay for what was done wrong to you by your ex idiot ass bf or husband I had that done to me in two separate relationships in the past I am not going to deal with that again , I do not have to so before you get with me in a relationship you need to make more then darn sure that you will not do that to me , yes you may say that you will not but over the years before I hit the age I am I have learned that that words can be twisted , where many can be dishonest , more , I am not about that , life is too stinking short to do that , put any one through that we all deserve to be happy , so do I.
And for those younger women yes you read right even women do things wrong its not always the male in this point it is equal between the two genders on that , if you younger ones do not believe that eventually as you go through life you will come to find its more then a realization , fact.
I want a long term relationship with a woman one that would be more then long term , more then life long .
I know that eventually starting with the mid beginning or any length of time in any relationship that there is bound to be disagreements/ arguments but I know that if both myself , the woman sat down calmly , talked we would be able to resolve it together , not make it any worse , with that I do know that it is not good , not logical to argue in front of children no matter what , even in public no matter what.
I do not drink , I do not smoke , I do not do any drugs / illegal narcotics.
I want a woman that does not do that as well I can not stand smell of smoke on a woman its not attractive at all.
And no tattoos either please I do not have any tattoos , I do not plan to get one either , no piercings on any part of the body please , not in the moth either.
Earrings are fine.
I do not want a woman with a criminal record , history either.
I do not have a criminal history , record at all.
I am currently doing volunteer work as well for a small retail business.
I believe that education is very important , it does not hurt to get a infant , toddler age appropriate educational toys even at any other age beyond that , it is also important for us adults as well.
I know that many have different views , thoughts , opinions on many different things no matter what they are on , about I respect support that , each one has a right of opinions , beliefs , thoughts but it should not be based on if one is compatible with the other , if each both sides would get along or not in short no matter what it should not determine if we would be good together or not , if we should get to know each other more even when we meet in person , beyond that as well
I am a one woman man.
I am working in Santa Clara County , advocating as well.
I am not an open book , I do know how to treat a woman but if the woman wants to be treated in the positive way by me she must show that she wants to be with me , only me by actions that she does as I would do for her , both sides would be a on going thing , no I would not hide things from the woman , I hope that she does not hide things from me either, I am a honest truthful man , I would not lie to her , I hope she does not lie to me , is honest , truthful as well. and with that the positive emotional things of every other thing would have to be continuous non stop , truthful , honest , more .
If I can except a woman for who , how she is baggage or no baggage , child or no child a woman should do the same , show the same respect , more for , to me -It is only a spiritual , logical , realistic thing to do to start