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PerArduaSurgo

28 M Oklahoma City, OK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jun 27, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: At the moment, I am not currently looking for anyone new to date : ) But I'm always up for making new friends.

"Contemplative" might be a good word to describe me. I really love intelligent conversations.

I work as a software engineer (although not *quite* the socially inept stereotype) in AWACS radar simulations at Tinker Air Force Base.

Things that interest me: social philosophy, engineering, music (especially heavy metal), weight training, boxing, reading (magazines, usually), animals (dogs and tigers are my favorites, but I like them all), chess, Scrabble, video games, wine, scotch, muscle cars, playing guitar, writing music....

I love music - almost everything, except for country, rap, or pop. I do love electronica, and jazz, and classical, and classic rock, but my favorite genre by far is heavy metal. Not the ugly, bleak, amelodic kind of metal, but the symphonic, powerful, uplifting kind of metal.

For the most part, I really don't like to dance much at all. Well, I like slow dancing and headbanging, but there's not much in between :p

I did grow up relatively poor, and I've managed to "pull myself up by my own bootstraps", so to speak. When I describe myself as "driven", I mean it. But this is also why I tend to be very protective of people who are going through hard times.

I suppose my personality can be a little intense, at times. I try to always be honest, but I also try to be tactful about it unless someone is just really grating my nerves. But if I see someone being extremely rude, or cruel, or simultaneously ignorant and arrogant, I have no problem taking them down a peg. I always do my best to follow my inner moral code. And I get along with most people pretty well.

Things I find attractive: thoughtfulness, uniqueness, grammar(!!), liberalism, an easygoing nature...

Things I find unattractive: arrogance and egotism, excessive religiosity, conformity, a lack of compassion for people who are poor...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I graduated from OSU in May of 2010 and started work at Tinker AFB in November of 2010. I love my job - I have no major debt, I've visited Italy, and I intend to do much more traveling : )
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Why, Dungeons & Dragons, of course. (I'm kidding. I'm actually deathly allergic to dice that have more than 6 sides). But I'm usually pretty good at figuring things out. It's an occupational hazard. Don't challenge me at poker :p
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm thoughtful and well-spoken. That's the main impression I leave on people, I think.

Although sometimes, depending on what's going through my mind, my mouth can be a few steps behind my brain....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movies:
--Inherit the Wind (1960)
--The Dark Knight Rises
--The Godfather Parts I & II
--The Matrix
--The Shawshank Redemption

Favorite musical genres:
--Metal (but not the ugly, negative kind)
--Electronica/Techno
--Classic Rock
--Orchestral/Classical
--Jazz
--Blues

Favorite shows:
--Dexter
--The Walking Dead
--The Daily Show with Jon Stewart
--Real Time with Bill Maher
--Family Guy
--Futurama
--Mythbusters

Favorite books:
--Wicked, by Gregory Maguire
--House of Leaves, by Mark Z. Danielewski
--The Truth (with Jokes), by Al Franken

Favorite foods:
I'm actually just about the least picky eater on the planet. I love everything. Although I think a good medium steak would probably be my favorite.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell makes "red velvet cake" so special? It's just food coloring. It should just be called "chocolate cake dyed red".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually hanging out with friends at a restaurant or pub or something, but sometimes just relaxing at home watching movies or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes beatbox absentmindedly...
You should message me if
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...you're not some mutated demonic alien looking to harvest my soul. Actually, if that's you, then go ahead and message me. Because that would be kind of neat.

And you should definitely message me if you're thoughtful, liberal, and unique :-)