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Perfect4uGirl

40 / F / Straight / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 6:16pm
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a confident, ambitious, cultured, warm, fun loving and affectionate woman. I love to dance, cook, listening to great music, movies (including indies); as well as visiting museums and art galleries. I enjoy the finest things in life and have experienced wonderful, upscale restaurants, lounges, ways of travel, etc. But I'm laid back enough to also love a hole in the wall with great music or food or cocktails. If it has all three, I can be there for hours. lol. One of my biggest interest is travel, travel, travel. It would be great to share that interest with my mate. I like to play golf on a nice day. But I suck! lol. I took sailing lessons a few years ago and love it! But I don't get a lot of time to practice what I've learned. I'm pretty open-minded and will try almost anything once.

I focus on a man's character, not his race. As long as the chemistry/attraction is there, I'll explore the potential. I've had long-term relationships with men outside my race. It's a non-issue for me.

What I'm looking for: I like what I call the 'Alpha Male'. No, not a caveman. lol. My kind of 'alpha male' is a man who is a leader. He is aggressive when need be, a decision-maker, has a strong sense of responsibility and someone who can take charge. In my perfect world, he balances his take-charge attitude with a warm, loving, affectionate personality. I have to be the go-getter, aggressive woman to get anywhere in my career. So I want to be the GIRL at home. tehehe. Shy guys need not apply. I also appreciate a man with a great (sarcastic) sense of humor. I love to laugh and find many things in life absolutely funny, even when others don't. I like a confident man who has what I call 'swagger'. Not cockiness. But a man who knows his worth in the world and isn't trying to blend into the beige walls. I enjoy being around men who can introduce me to something new.
What I’m doing with my life
Studying for a professional certificate, traveling a lot, researching upcoming concerts and festivals to attend this summer and loving life in general.
I’m really good at
Cooking gourmet meals for friends. Cooking is a wonderful way for me to relax. I cook about 4-5 nights a week. Just waiting for a man I can cook for:-) I love taking care of my man in that way, pampering him when he needs it, being his buddy/confidante/best friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I would love to say it's my big, brown eyes. But most men may say they first notice my 'twins'. Tehehe.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and Family
The love and support of a GREAT man
Great food and wine
God
My iPhone
My passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...where shall I travel to next and if I will be lucky enough to take my next trip with someone special; my next career move; Children or not; how much to save so I can retire comfortably like my Dad; if all of my volunteer efforts are in vain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on my mood and the weather outside. I could be at a lounge having drinks, a wine & cheese pairing event, at a concert or the theater, at the movies, relaxing on my roofdeck with friends, enjoying the chef-pairing at the newest restaurant or purposely home alone enjoying a glass of wine and my own company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll pass on this one. lol.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you actually read my profile and think we'll have fun together.
No picture = no response
Outside of the DC, MD, VA Area = no response
Separated = still married = no response