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36 F Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Well hello there.

I've been looking for a new suitcase, since the one I have has been loved into submission. I took a trip to Spain last April to visit a friend I've known since kindergarten. I drank sangria, ate tapas, and stayed out after my bedtime. In the fall, it was off to New York and Montreal. Now I'm dreaming of Berlin and missing Paris. It's going to be long weekends this summer in the US and Europe in the fall, I suspect.

I'm not a stamp collector, but I love letters and passports. I think better on trains, and wish I had to time to travel that way more. I think I've made most major life decisions on trains: what to major in in college (art history), whether or not I wanted to keep living in SF about seven years ago (I didn't).

I love big ideas discussed by fires with scotch. In summer, I like small ideas by the ocean with white wine or sangria.

People matter to me. I know all my friends' birthdays, and parties are a big deal to us. I cook a meal with my friends at least once a week. The thing I love most about LA is how open everyone is to meeting someone new. Sometimes it feels like the whole city is Cheers.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a crazy job. I wrangle words, writers, and Ferraris, among other things.

I'll tell you more if we meet.
I’m really good at
Fixing sentences that sound crazy so they make sense.
Traveling and making an adventure out of experiences. Jet lag does not touch me.
Thinking of the perfect thing to say about 5 minutes too late.
Getting dressed up.
Picking up accents.
The first things people usually notice about me
They think they have met me before.

This happens almost daily. Then they realize I look just like their cousin's roommate or their niece's co-worker.

It's creepy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Yes, please.

I love books that keep me up all night and then make me get up early so I can squeeze just a bit more in before work (most recent in that category, Jess Walter's Beautiful Ruins- just loved it.) I just started Donna Tartt's Goldfinch, and it had me at hello. I also love classics. I read a lot of Russian Literature as a teenager, hiding from the sun under umbrellas. How silly. Now I love the sun and prefer books that make me laugh, like David Sedaris and Freddy and Fredericka. The God of Small Things made me cry like a thunderstorm. I finished it in a dorm room in London over Christmas and used up all the kleenex in the house.

I'm the kind of person who wants to talk about the movie we just saw. And I want to talk about the movies we loved, even if we haven't just seen them. I can handle subtitles. If they're in French, I can sometimes tell if they're wrong. I always want to see everything at the Laemmle or the Landmark, but I like a good blockbuster, too.

I don't have cable, so my m.o. with TV is to watch shows about 7 years too late on netflix and talk to people at work like they are new. "Have you heard of this cool show?" I ask. "It's called Buffy the Vampire Slayer?" I'm currently on Fringe. I watch Downton Abbey and Sherlock in real time.

I love music, but am not terribly knowedgable. I love Spotify and Pandora Stations. And friends who make me mixes. Will you make me a mix? What would be the first song on it?

Menus sometimes make me groan in embarassing When-Harry-Met-Sally style. I love menus. And the food that comes after. Sometimes I get jealous of people when they show up at restaurants hungry and I'm already full.
The six things I could never do without
A bathtub
Manual transmission
My passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people still think it's ok to use comic sans and papyrus.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends...

Seeing a play, having a round of drinks, seeing music or a movie or hanging out at someone's house cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm afraid of the two little girls from The Shining.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You like big words, and you're not afraid to use them, but you still have a naughty sense of humor.
You know where your passport is right now.
At this point in your life, you are ready to get real. You want the same lady in your face for quite some time, so you're willing to take it slow and get to know her before diving in.
You can laugh at your mistakes, and you go out on a limb for what you believe. You like to hold hands at the movies and you're excited about going away for the weekend somewhere we can see all the stars.
You live with your eyes open, but you kiss with your eyes closed.