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41 Tampere, Finland Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 22
5' 9" (1.74m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Swedish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm... well... if you've seen the movie King Kong, I'm a lot like Kong except I'm not that big or furry... Well, I'm probably more like the writer in that movie. Or like Luke in Star Wars without the force. Or like Frodo in the LotR without some of his friends.

The best description of me I can think of is: I am myself and I have always been that. I don't try nor want to pretend to be anyone else. I don't like empty small talk, but smart jokes and smart conversations are alway welcome.

I am introvert, strangish, and okay.
What I’m doing with my life
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Quite a lot of things. I have never enough time to do all the things I want. I avoid stress by not taking everything too seriously.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Absolutely everything. Except a few things...
The first things people usually notice about me
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They usually don't. When they do, I think they take me as a little weird but harmless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(a) Asimov, LotR, the rest of fantasy and sf, thrillers, crazy and funny things, comics, etc. (b) Fantasy, sf, (romantic) comedies, (some) animations, action, good movies. (c) Classical, melodic, celtic, jazz, new age. In the right mood, anything goes if only it has some melody. Vocals are not all that necessary. Alas, I have never understood heavy. (d) Almost anything. I'd say fish.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Animals (except mosquitos; I don't like mosquitos), some books, movies, most music, nature (including forests and hills and stuff), computers (since I need a computer with most of my hobbies).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The life, the universe and everything. Really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home or walking somewhere outside. Not in a bar, since I really don't like dark, noisy nor smoky places.
You should message me if
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No ifs. You should message me. Period.