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Pernicio

29 M Vanda, Finland

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.87m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus
Education
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Finnish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The most precious kind of gold comes from people with golden hearts.

I'm an honest person who hates to lie. Trust is extremely important to me, which is one of the most important reasons why I try to be my self in any given situation. I say try, because I have tendencies to be a realist and I know, that not a single person have "one true self". At least not in the sense, that we as human beings evolve constantly through our lives, both mentally and physically. None of us are exactly as we were when we were children, as in "our true self", the "original form" of our personality. Personality, in turn, comes mostly from our environmental influences, that we experience throughout our lives.

The above might have already given it away, that I like to self-study human behavior, both in sociological and psychological terms. I like to think a lot, but at the same time I like to relax just as much - I won't take life too seriously, nor too lightly. Not to mention, that I like to do things with my hands, tinker and build, be it heavy or light work - as long as what I do have a meaning. So basically, I prefer a balanced lifestyle, even if I don't approach the concept of "balanced life" as how people might usually understand it. My thinking can be very unconventional sometimes, in the sense that it can be more humane than what the "normal" way to think in our time - the zeitgeist (spirit or cultural climate of the present) of our time - is. It's hard to explain in short, how so, but you will learn while you get to know me ^.^

I like closeness and cuddling a lot, but I also like and enjoy having my own space. I don't need constant socializing, even with the person I truly love, as to love means to say "yes" to the whole person - at that point, she has touched my soul and no matter the distance or time that have passed since the last meeting, she will remain dear to me. Naturally, I would like to be with the one I love as much as possible, but I try not to be too dependent on her in a healthy fashion.

In summary,

I'm a loyal and trustworthy friend - honest man, who wont promise more than what he is truly capable of. I'm a loving person and at the very least try to be kind to others, even when I'm being mistreated - yet I will never let anyone grind me to the ground by using my kindness against me. I have both mental strength and emotional sensitivity to experience the world, without being crushed entirely underneath the miseries that life has to offer from time to time. I'm not afraid to show my feelings to others, though depending on situation and reasoning per person/situation, I also keep things to my self from some people. I won't lie, but I may divert the question by saying something that holds true, but does not tell the whole story or reveal the core issues about my feelings, for an example. If something is wrong with our relationship, I'm always willing to have open, honest discussions about any issues, no matter how hard subjects they might be.

There is much more about who I really am, so feel free to ask if you like to know something - I will always answer openly to any question, even extremely personal ones ^.^ I say that only because I like it when people try "leaps of faith" with me. That way they learn faster, that it's not just empty words from my part, that people can talk about anything with me or ask anything from me, without the worry for it to be a "deal breaker" if they ask or speak about "wrong" topics. Relationships are not a game for me, so I treat everyone as equals - fellow human beings.

Suomeksi tarkemmin;

"En välttämättä pidä kaikesta mitä teet ja miksi, mutta tulen aina pitämään sinusta ihmisenä" Sellaista ihmissuhdetta etsin ja olen valmis hyväksymään uudet tuttavat juuri sellaisina kuin he ovat. Ystävyys kasvaa vain ajan kanssa ja olisi typerää odottaa, että todellinen ystävyys syntyy vain, jos kipinöi heti alusta alkaen :) Useimpien kohdalla ei varmasti sytytä heti, joidenkin osalla ei suhde välttämättä koskaan etene kaveruutta kummoisemmin, mutta ainakin yritän omalta osaltani olla inhimillinen ihminen ja kohdella toista samalla kunnioituksella, mitä itsekin toivon saavani. Todellinen ystävyys on harvinaista ja mielelläni panostan enemmän laatuun kuin määrään. Haluaisitko sinäkin löytää todellisen ystävän ja/tai kenties kestävän romanssin?

"Mikäli logiikka ja sydän eivät pysty työskentelemään yhdessä ja näet ne pohjimmiltaan erillisinä asioina, puuttuu sinulta jotain hyvin oleennaista ihmisenä"

An old Cherokee told his grandson:
“My son, there is a battle between two wolves inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindness, empathy and truth.”

The boy thought about it, and asked: “Grandfather, which wolf wins?”

The old man quietly replied: “The one you feed.”

vaikea päättää, millaiseen formaattiin laittaisi kuvauksensa, joten annan mennä tällä kertaa vain rennon soljuvasti tämän päivän fiilisten mukaisesti :) Tosikoille ei välttämättä jää hyvä maku suuhun. Hyvänä esimerkkinä on huumorintajuni, jonka yhdestä osa-alueesta keksinkin juuri hyvin kuvaavan, englanninkielisen termin "Experimental depth deprivation". Minusta on sanottu, että olen varsinainen naisten naurattaja, mutta en sellainen joka vie joka naisen jatkoille kotiinsa ;) Olen yhden naisen mies, enkä harrasta tai ole harrastanut yhden illan juttuja. Olen kypsä ja nuori mies, enkä ole liian totinen aikuinen. Fyysisiltä ominaisuuksilta minulla on leveät, miehiset hartiat ja miehiset hierojan kädet, jotka eivät valitettavasti erotu kuvasta hyvin asentoni vuoksi ;) Tykkään hieroa naista, josta pidän aidosti - minustakin on mukavaa kun toinen voi nauttia kosketuksestani ^^

Olen luonteeltani optimisti, mutta en sokea sellainen. Pyrin siis olla murehtimasta turhia, mutta myös olla sulkematta silmiäni todellisuuden kurjilta puolilta. En anna maailman aivopierumaisten piirteiden lannistaa itseäni, vaan kuljen omaa tietäni, pyrkien rakentamaan aktiivisesti oman tulevaisuuteni. Tykkään itsenäisestä opiskelusta ja teenkin sitä aina välillä liiankin aktiivisesti, tietoähkyyn ja "aivojen tykytykseen" asti - toisinaan sitä kerta innostuu liikaa jostakin aiheesta ;) Kestosuosikkini ovat psykologia ja sosiologia - ei ihan joka ihmisen mielenkiinnonkohteita. Kyseisestä syystä myös osaan ymmärtää hyvinkin erilaisia ihmisiä keskivertoa huomattavasti paremmin.

Intellektuellimaisesta puolestani huolimatta, omaan myös sen tervehenkisesti leikkimielisen puolen ja hyvin laaja-alaisen huumorintajun. Tykkään olla yllätyksellinen ja ajoittain kokeilla jopa huonojakin vitsejä ihan vain katsoakseni miten vieraampi ihminen reagoi ;) Kiusoittelu voi olla hyvinkin kivaa, mutta niissä rajoissa, ettei ne toisestakaan tuntuisi pahalta. Mikäli pahoitan naispuolisen kaverini tai rakkaani mielen jostakin, tekee mieli usein silitellä ja lohdutella :3 Osaan olla siis hellyyttävä hömppä, kuin myös arkisestikin hoivaava luonne. Kuin myös kova halimaan, läheisyydestä pidän kauhiasti.

*Köh* mutta niin, tästä on hyvä jatkaa :) Voisin jauhaa itsestäni vaikka kuinka pitkät litaniat ja silti antaa vain pintaraapaisun todellisesta olemuksestani tässä - sama ongelma kyllä jokaisella muullakin. Samasta syystä, en tuomitse ihmisiä helposti sen perusteella, mitä he kanssani kirjoittelevat tai puhuvat ja aina pyrin ottamaan sen extra askeleen syvemmälle toisen olemukseen. Haluan oppia tuntemaan toisen aidosti ja nähdä, kuinka läheisiä ihmisiä meistä voi ajan kanssa tulla. Olen kärsivällinen, eikä minulla ole kiire minnekään kenenkään kanssa :) Pääasia että voimme molemmat nauttia toistemme seurasta - eikä sitäkään huomaa varmuudella vasta kuin kasvotusten tavatessa. En kiusaannu helposti hiljaisistakaan hetkistä ja oikeassa seurassa se onkin vain rentouttavaa, mikäli voi vain olla toisen kanssa, hiljaa kahden ;)

Kykenetkö ylittämään mukavuusrajasi uusiin ihmisiin tutuessaan ilman, että kiinnostus lakkaa tyystin? Mikäli löytyy ihminen, joka kykenee toistuvasti ylittämään oman mukavuusrajansa ja pitämään mielen avoinna niin toisen persoonallisuuden, kuin asioiden suhteen yleensäkin, voi se auttaa synnyttämään ties kuinka kestävän siteen välillemme. Elämää kun ei ole hyvä ottaa liian vakavasti, vaikka ei liian kevyestikään ;)

"I'm just a human being,
trying to make it in a world,
that is very rapidly loosing it's
understanding of being human"
~John Trudell
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Educating my self on subjects that interest me and have practical use for me to pursue self sufficient living.

Ultimately, the only thing I want, is to live a full life, as good of a man as I can. I would want to live it with someone I could share the comforts of life, as well as all the pain it might throw at us. Someone special to love, to be with, to cuddle when nights grow dark and cold. To have someone there when you feel down and be there for her, when she wants someone to hold her tight.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Things I really put my mind into. Things that truly spark my curiosity.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tough one, as I can't know for sure what people notice about me. Though my eyes have been the main focal point of compliments ^^
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
OCRemix - Passing Of The Blue Crown
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OCRemix - When The Smoke CLears
http://cur.lv/7mdxa

Malukah - Reignite
http://cur.lv/7o3xj

Malukah - Rains of Castamere
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Malukah - Beauty Of Dawn
http://cur.lv/7o4w0

Jeremy Soule - Fear Not This Night (ft. Asja)
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Cosmosky Orchestra - Chrono Cross Medley
http://cur.lv/7mdxb

Noriko Mitose - Radical Dreamers
http://cur.lv/7mdxc

Reuben Kee - Shenmue Reflections
http://cur.lv/7mdxd

Árstíðir - Heyr himna smiður
http://cur.lv/7mdxf

Peter Gabriel - My Body Is a Cage
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Johnny Cash - Hurt
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Bruce Springsteen - The Wrestler
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Deer Tick - Goodbye, Dear Friend
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Greg Holden - The Lost Boy
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The Whistler - The White Buffalo
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Amagami SS - My Blue Galaxy
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Le Portrait de Petit Cossette - Somewhere I belong
http://cur.lv/7mdxn

Mushishi - Kaze no Tamakura
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AudioMachine - The Truth
http://cur.lv/7mdxp

Apotheosis - The Differently Sentient
http://cur.lv/7mdxq

ETC., basicly from classical to doom metal, preferences changing by mood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Love
-Family
-Friends
-Comfort
-Wisdom
-Compassion

"the Best things in life are not things at all"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life it self. What it is and what it could be, how could I improve it for myself and possibly others. How to evolve, which way to take in order to achieve my goals.

http://koti.mbnet.fi/deviant

-working on english version of my homepage.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is really no typical Friday for me. Sometimes I'm with friends, sometimes I'm at home doing stuff or just sitting in a park, wondering where the world is going/meditating.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I did tell, then you could have hard time to shut me up ;) I could basically admit anything, the ups and downs, proud moments and shames of my life. They are part of the past, from which human can evolve, if there is will to do so and strength not to give up.

Also that, every person understands word "love" differently. For me, true love represents basic respect toward one another, as living & feeling human beings. It represents the will and strength to stick together, even when times are hard. It represents compassion towards others weaknesses and willingness to stay strong in front of the other ones sorrow and pain. It represents kindness and warmth, to be willing to mend each others pain. It means to say yes to the whole person, with all of his/her strengths and weaknesses and acknowledges, that even our life together will not be like a dance on rose petals. It means, that you are the one I feel closest to. No matter the physical distance between us, nor any amount of time will erase it. At least, so I like to dream ^^
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are truly willing and mentally strong enough to see who I really am. It is not about how big of a feat it is, but how little you really have to do in order to get to know someone. You just have to lower you prejudice, not make hasty decisions. Take a risk, that I might not be someone you could love, but in return, you could find one of the best friends you can have. No one knows, especially if you are not willing to really see and I press the word REALLY.