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I’m looking for
- Ages 20–28
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- Queer, Asexual
- 5′ 10″ (1.77m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of high school
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently)
I've had this profile for a while now and the great majority of people I'm contacted by are straight men, and I'm really wondering why? Like, if you just wanna have a chat, then that's fine but for anything beyond that you're gonna have to accept that I am not female. And if we end up going out, you are not straight
I am a horrible procrastinator and suffer from anxiety so if I haven't replied to your message it most likely has nothing to do with you.
I'm agender and use they/them pronouns and asexual. These are both parts of my identity that are extremely important to me so if you want to talk about it that's fine but if you ignore it I will instantly dislike you and nothing you say from then on will change that
Some information about being agender: http://www.autostraddle.com/five-things-you-should-know-about-your-agender-acquaintance-230899/
Some information about asexuality: http://asexualawarenessweek.com/asexuality-101/
If you want to learn more about asexuality you can also go to AVEN (the Asexual Visibility & Education Network): http://www.asexuality.org/home/
I am Norwegian and I do speak the language fluently, but I really prefer English. So there is a much higher chance of me answering if you write your messages in English, even if you are Norwegian/speak Norwegian. And if you do send me a message in Norwegian I might respond in English. Sorry, I just really don't like the Norwegian language.
I work at a museum selling tickets and toys and stuff. When I'm not working I'm mostly just sitting at home, trying to motivate myself to do some drawing. I don't have a very eventful life but I'm fine with that
Not great yet, but I'm getting better at drawing
Don't really know, never asked. Hopefully it's positive.
Some of the books I like:
Kingmaker, Kingbreaker series/universe
Inheritance Cycle (Eragon)
Harry Potter Series
Enduring Flame Trilogy
Power of Five series
My favourite movie at the moment is Rise of the Guardians. I'm also a huge fan of fantasy
I watch some anime series - a lot less than I used to, but there are still some I enjoy - but other than that I like Star Trek (TNG, DS9 and Voyager), Supernatural, Castle, Firefly, Buffy: The Vampire Slayer, Angel, The Batman, Young Justice, Justice League, Transformers Animated and Prime, Grimm, Fringe and some other stuff I can't remember right now.
When it comes to music I'll listen to what I like and I don't really care about what genre it is. Though, generally I don't enjoy listening to rap.
I somehow manage to be really picky but still eat pretty much anything. I can't stand spicy food though
- My family and friends (Shush! It's totally the same thing!)
- Games (As in video games. Although board games are fun too!)
Everything and nothing really. I daydream a lot
Sitting right where I am now. I don't really move much from my desk chair
I guess maybe that I am asexual (meaning I don't experience sexual attraction, and while it's not the same for every asexual person, the thought of having sex is completely repulsive to me). It's not really a huge deal for me to admit or anything, but it's not something I'll just randomly blurt out in the middle of a conversation either.
I am also agender, meaning I don't really identify as any specific gender. I prefer they/them pronouns.
I don't know, if you're bored or there is something you're wondering about me or maybe want to have a small chat.
If you're looking for something more than just chatting online you really should read through my profile. I'm not asking you to go through every single question I've answered but seriously, a little bit of effort can go a long way.
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