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24 Oslo, Norway Agender, Non-binary, Transgender

Agender, Non-binary, Transgender

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20-29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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Asexual, Queer
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.77m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I know I have a long profile but I'd really appreciate if you do not message me unless you've read and understood at least the 'self summary' and 'you should message me if' sections.


Hi, I'm Robin! I'm a 24 year old asexual, agender person living in
Oslo and I'm one of those scary feminists! Don't message me if you're anti-feminism. I'm into drawing, gaming (especially with friends), reading, cartoons, and spending time with my friends and family. Although it's equally important to me to have a lot of time to myself to recharge my energy after being around others

The only goals I have for the future right now are to be able to rent a nice apartment by myself and finding a girlfriend or nonbinary datemate/loveperson (I love both of those words so much). I'm not usually interested in cis men but it does happen occasionally, at which point I'll usually completely rethink what kind of people I'm attracted to

I suffer from anxiety and depression and am going to a psychologist right now and I'm on medication to help me cope with it. If there's anyone visiting my profile wondering if they should get help for the same things, I wanna say that for me it's made a world of difference! Not everyone reacts to things the same but I was wondering if I should go for at least a year before actually doing it, and my only regret now is not going earlier. A dating site might seem like a strange place to say this but I just want everyone who is struggling like I am that things can and do get better

I am Norwegian and I do speak the language fluently, but I really prefer writing in English. So there is a much higher chance of me answering if you write your messages in English, even if you are Norwegian/speak Norwegian. And if you do send me a message in Norwegian I might respond in English. Sorry, I just really don't like the Norwegian language, and please don't ask me to explain why because I don't really have a reason that can be explained.

For anyone needing more info about asexuality and being agender:

Being asexual means that I don't experience sexual attraction. Personally I don't have any interest in sex or talking about sex with strangers but that's not the same for all asexual people. Some are completely repulsed to the point where even a mention of sex makes them feel sick, some have a very active sex life, and many are in between these two ''extreme'' points. If you want to know where an ace* person stands on the subject, the best thing would be to (respectfully) ask them about it
*ace - A 'nickname' for an asexual person

Being agender simply enough means that I don't really identify as any particular gender. Personally I use they/them pronouns in English and don't really care which one you use in Norwegian as long as you don't call me things like 'girl', or 'woman' or anything similar.
If the notion of nonbinary genders is completely new to you, I suggest you google it before entertaining any idea of starting a relationship with me, friendship or otherwise
If you need any more info about either of these or other orientations and gender identities I probably won't mind digging up a page or two on that for you.

These are both parts of my identity that are extremely important to me so if you want to talk about it that's fine but if you ignore it I will instantly dislike you and nothing you say from then on will change that.

And finally, do NOT ask me about my genitals. I can't believe I even have to add this to my profile but the amount of people (mostly cis men honestly) who start a conversation just to ask about my genitals is just disgusting.
This obviously also goes for asking me what gender I was 'originally' or 'born as'.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at a museum selling tickets and toys and stuff. When I'm not working I'll either be with friends or at home, probably gaming or trying to motivate myself to do some drawing. I don't have a very eventful life but I'm fine with that
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not great yet, but I'm getting better at drawing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't really know, never asked. Hopefully it's positive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Some of the books I like:

Kingmaker, Kingbreaker series/universe
Inheritance Cycle
Kingkiller Chronicle
Enduring Flame Trilogy
Obsidian Trilogy
Power of Five series

And I'm always on the lookout for books with queer main characters in the fantasy genre. If you know of any and feel like sharing please do!

My favourite movie is Rise of the Guardians and I'm a huge fan of fantasy and sci-fi


Miraculous Ladybug
Steven Universe
Star Trek (TNG, DS9 and Voyager)
Buffy: The Vampire Slayer
The Batman
Young Justice
Justice League
Transformers (Animated and Prime)
The Flash
Orphan Black
Agent Carter
Dark Matter

My Favourite games will forever be the The Legend of Zelda series. I've been playing Zelda since OoT came out when I was 7 and I don't see myself stopping any time soon
Other than that I like:
Jak and Daxter
Ratchet & Clank
Dragon Age II and Inquisition. Still haven't gotten very far in Origins

My favourite bands at the moment are Bastille and Fall Out Boy.
I listen to a lot of different music but these are the artists I've got the most of on my spotify. Pretty much the only thing I don't like is rap
Florence + the Machine
Of Monsters and Men
Imagine Dragons
American Authors
Heather Dale
Kina Grannis
Owl City
Adam Lambert
San Fermin

I somehow manage to be really picky but still eat pretty much anything. I can't stand spicy food though

None of these lists are complete, I just have a shit memory and this is all I can remember for now
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My family and friends (Shush! It's totally the same thing!)
- Books
- Alone time
- Internet
- Salty licorice
- Gaming

Not gonna include things like water and air like I've seen a lot of people on here do, cause seriously that's just lame
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-What to draw and how to draw it and then never actually doing it
-Why do so many people on this site have taco in their username? Okay, so I don't think a lot about this, I'm just kinda curious and confused.
-Why is it so hard for the people making the questions for this site to use 'they' instead of saying 'him or her', or 's/he'?
-The design of the tattoos I want
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, gaming, drawing, or just wasting time online
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-If you're not planning on invalidating my gender because of how I present myself I guess, that's pretty important.

-You're not gonna tell me how I should deal with my depression or anxiety. I don't care what you know or think you know, if your advice is in the same vein as 'do yoga and think positive thoughts' it's useless.

-You're not gonna be talking or asking about the weather in Norway. I've had enough weather talk from this website for a lifetime.

-You don't consider yourself 'sapiosexual'. I'm not looking for a debate on this, if you don't like it just don't message me.

-You're able to write a coherent sentence. I'm sorry, but if you can't make yourself understood in a language I understand then I'd really prefer you don't message me at all.

-You don't use gay, retarded or anything similar as an insult or to describe something.

-If you're gonna be saying more than how pretty you think I am or how attracted you are to me. I know some of you mean well, but I'm so sick of trying to have a conversation with someone who has nothing more to say than various versions of 'you're pretty'.

-You don't mind going no further than casual conversation if you live far away. I'm not looking for long distance relationships of any kind, and that includes friendship.

Don't bother asking about my skype, facebook, number, or anything else because I'm not going to be giving it away to anyone I don't know. If you want to talk to me it'll have to be on this site until I feel like I can trust you.