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Perseph_

27 / F / straight / Single

’s-Hertogenbosch, Netherlands

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am adventurous, edible, and silly.

My Self-Summary

Right, me:

I love to read, write stories and draw hideous pictures. Not because of disturbing subject matter, I reserve that for my stories, but just because my imagination out shines my drawing skills. When I find the time I put on one of my favorite albums, close the curtains and curl up on the sofa with a good book. I am a fitness instructor and take advantage of the facilities my job has to offer to work out after hours. Apart from my job I worked part time as a massage therapist and want to get back into the people rubbing game. Very close to getting my diploma as a nutritional advisor. I hope to combine those things into the whole body and mind wellness package and start my own business but plans tend to change so who knows where I'll end up.

With my friends I like to go out, either just the local pub or fetish, bdsm parties, or stay in with a cup of tea and chat. Most of us are happy in the poly amorous lifestyle. And allthough I am still figuring out exactly where I stand on that subject, I am definately not monogamous.

What I’m doing with my life

Studying or at least I should be doing that. But procrastinating is also a very serious talent of mine. Spending many hours in the gym, library or bookshop, saving money for some rather questionable parties, hanging out with the people I love, trying to be artistic, contemplating poly amoury, relationships, bdsm and life in general.

I’m really good at

Wasting time, I have mastered the art and devided it into several minors:
Spamming the net with my opinions, visiting the gym religously, having endless cups of tea with my friends, rereading every book I own at least 4 times, writing letters, twidling my thumbs, and so on. I love to debate, rant and muse about the things that are on my mind. Corrupting people.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:

J.D. Sallinger, Orson Scott Card, Dan Simmons, Edward Albee, Roger McGough, Brian Patten, Charlotte Brontë, Raymond E. Feist, Yann Martell, Robin Hobb, Tess Gerritsen, Terry Pratchett, Jane Austen, Frank Herbert, Mark Haddon, Roald Dahl....

Music:

Satie, Chopin, Prokofiev, Chet Baker, Duke Ellington, st. Vincent, Nine Inch Nails, 16 Horsepower, Morphine, Aphex Twin, Slipknot, Combichrist, Primus, Goldfrapp, Prince, The Pogues, Blood, Sweat & Tears, CSNY, System of a down, The Cure, D'Angelo, some hardcore, Nirvana....

Movies:

Who's afraid of Virginia Woolf?, The taming of the shrew, Death too Smootchy, Spirited Away, Howl's moving castle, Les Choristes, Etre et avoir, Le Fabuleux Destin d'Amélie Poulain...

The six things I could never do without

Good friends and lovers, books, music, my laptop hooked up to the internet, iphone, bdsm

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I the words of my favorite poet:

Everyday,. I think about dying. About disease, starvation, violence, terrorism, war, the end of the world. It helps keep my mind off things.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

In movies, most of the time, I root for the villain.

You should message me if

You think yourself uncorruptable ( I do love a challenge)
Or for whatever reason you can think of, I am not picky.