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65 Berlin, Germany Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-60
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Oct 9
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), German (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Lets be straight: I'm not looking for sexual partners. My sexual life was very satisfactory, but its twilight has begone. Therefore here I'm only interested in meeting people susceptible to become good friends. Some of those that I met through OkC became very close friends.

Here is an attempt to a summary:

I couldn't live on a desert island, I couldn't do without telephone, internet or Facebook - but I enjoy solitude
Conversation is important, but it has to be witty and never a monologue
I'm deeply interested in other people

I think politics is important
I consider political discussions interesting, but think that nobody ever changed his mind through a political discussion.
I dislike arguments. I'm rather coward when it comes to a dispute.

I'm kind.
I think sincerity is often welcome, but good manners are a necessary lubricant of relationships.

I like sciences as much as humanities.
I'm interested in the arts.
I'm greedy to learn
But I don't despise uncultivated people - culture is not the ground for reciprocal interest and respect - nor is the lack of it

I'm neither rich nor poor; I dislike avarice and pettiness.

I like to be on very late, but I'd love to wake up early : this is a contradiction. Not my only one:

I'm still close, and in some cases very close, to many of my ex partners.

I like real originality, but I utterly dislike the clichés of originality; I specially dislike people who are mediocre but try to hide it to themselves and the others by pretending to be original

I was bisexual until 25-27, then I lost the gay half of myself

I generally prefer to be with young people, for the older ones are often bitter and boring: they either complain, or are too proud; they either lost impetus, or use it to pontificate and lecture you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Until a few years ago I used to lecture on recent Italian history in a university in Paris. Now I'm retired and spend much time writing academic articles and studying the history of Berlin.

I have many friends, but I'm always willing to meet new people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- at being sociable

- at being on my own

- at sitting all day at my desk

- at spending all day with friends

- at listening and being supportive
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I must frequently pull up my trousers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All literature from Homer to Alice Munro. (But don't think that I read everything: far from that).

Music? All classical music, jazz and many songs. I don't understand many forms of labbelized music that the youngsters like. I don't know what those labels mean.

Cinema: old and new classics, but I missed most interesting movies during the last 30 years.

tv series

Food? All sorts

I don't dance (and I regret it); I don't do sport .

I love conversation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
F: Freedom, Friends, Flirts

Input/Output: Reading, Writing, Learning, Teaching

Conversation: Personal life, Politics, The Nature of Things, Sex

The Arts: Photography

The Sciences: Practising College Mathematics, Studying History and Economics, Reading Popular Physics and Biology

My (female) young cousin
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

My friends

Possible projects and Plans

Love, sex and the nature of human relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working (and I don't say 'alas' for I enjoy it)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When nobody sees, I put my fingers up my nose
You should message me if
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You think that we have something to say to each other