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35 Jersey City, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a pretty lucky guy: I'm a lawyer starting his own business • I own my own home • I come from a loving family and have made lifelong friends • I own a sweet dog named after a famous Star Wars character • I've had leadership positions in local community organizations • I ran for public office and, well, didn't win but did very well considering it was the first time • [and] I can sing, dance, and write. Yes, I'm Ke$ha minus the alcohol poisoning.

Of course, one thing would round it all out. Finding someone to share it with. Dude, I've seen 35 states, and I'd really like someone special with whom to see the *other* 15. Someone who can raise my game, teach me a few things, and who can appreciate what I have to offer.

Me? I'm ambitious, goal-oriented, and like dogs, whiskey, and bakeries. I'd rather have a few close friends than a gazillion "friends" I've only met for 30 seconds. I'm a quality over quantity kinda guy. Can you handle this?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In the words of June Carter, "I'm just trying to matter." I'm a part-time legislative aide and lawyer working on building a new practice in the neighborhood, which is an ongoing adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering. I seem to have a knack for remembering all kinds of inane stories from 7th grade of who said what to whom and all the gossip. I'm a good listener, writer, and not-such-a-bad cook. I'm also a damn good MC and dabble as a singer/songwriter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This has changed over time: It used to be my laugh ... then it was my hands (I have two of them!) ... then my best friend told me that I "sit down uniquely" (not sure what that means). So, the jury is out. We'll have to meet, and you'll have to tell me the first things you notice! Then, I'll come back and post! Deal?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Improbably Scholars, 1984, To Kill A Mocking Bird, Election by Tom Perrotta, The Plague.

MOVIES: The Empire Strikes Back, Shawshank Redemption, Welcome to the Dollhouse, Hedwig and the Angry Inch.

MUSIC: How about this? The 10 albums I purchased most recently were: (1) Beck "Guero"; (2) Jay-Z "American Gangster";
(3) P!nk "Funhouse"; (4) Band of Horses "Infinite Arms"; (5) Erykah Badu "New Amerykah Part One"; (6) Erykah Badu "Baduism"; (7) R.E.M. "Murmur"; (8) Phoenix "Wolfgang Amadeus Phoenix"; (9) Weezer "The Red Album"; and (10) Joni Mitchell "Blue."

FOOD: Cuban, Indian, Thai, Italian ... I'm a good eater :)

TV: I am head over heels in love with Orange is the New Black and Parks & Recreation (it's really a tie I'd say for favorite show); as well as classics like Dallas; The Mary Tyler Moore Show; Cheers; the Cosby Show; and my all-time favorite: Roseanne!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order: (1) Roseanne (my favorite TV show); (2) my committee of 3 bestest friends; (3) good pizza; (4) love; (5) passion (about something); and (6) clean underwear (gotta draw a line somewhere!).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm going to take over the world. And brainstorming song lyrics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There ain't nothing typical about my Friday nights. Tomorrow night (which happens to be a Friday) I'm going to a bar association committee meeting (over drinks and pizza, but still). Last Friday night I went to a parks association meeting (over drinks, dinner, and dessert). I guess there's a theme ...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There just might come a time when I suggest we have sexual relations listening to Sade's "Lovers Rock." Just go with it. It'll be good practice for when I suggest we have sexual relations to Aaliyah's "Rock the Boat."
You should message me if
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You're interested in --- and willing to make time for --- something with long-term potential. I'm looking for a guy who's patient, kind, with a good head on his shoulders. A good communicator, who doesn't hate "the game" yet still chooses to play it. Someone with goals and ambitions or at least some semblance of a plan. Cute helps too. Nice teeth and hands go a long way. Nice legs turn me on. So does the saxophone, incidentally.