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43 Leuven, Belgium Man


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  • Ages 26-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:10am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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For someone who makes a living out of writing, I find it remarkebly hard to summarize myself... Well, maybe I'm just not very summarizable. But I'm versatile to make up for it.

Maybe I should go for a run through the woods as I usually do when inspiration runs dry. Or I could just adopt Aragon's saying 'je raconte ma vie comme on fait les rêves au réveil'. In which case I would say that I move horses, hug books and write trees.

Don't let it be too confusing. In general I'm just a creative, kind-hearted, well-mannered (mostly) and only slightly daft sort of guy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to remove its husk of superficiality and its core of rigidity. Then cooking the fresh and meaty parts of it in a mixture of curiosity and red wine, seasoning it with s&p (sensibility and poetry) and serving it with gusto to my friends and fellows.
It would be nice however to intimately share a large helping of it with someone special who really appreciates the taste of life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... trying!
... meditiating, conversating, exhilerating.
... writing (well, sometimes).
... cooking a limited number of exquisite dishes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They say: my eyes. But then again, people who've said that might have been biased.
Or - when it just happened - my trimestrial haircut (I like it shorter in the summer than in the winter).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ah, the abundance! The abundance!
Let's try to be brief...

- Books: modern novels and poetry, mostly dutch, but some english (McEwan,...) and french (Nothomb,...) as well.
- Movies: I look for certain directors: Lynch, Almodovar, Tarantino, Spielberg, Inarritu, Loach, ...
- Music: from classic (Beethoven) to heavy (Metallica) and A LOT in between.
- Food: almost everything, but I prefer pasta, salads, fish, seafood and a good glass of local beer or foreign wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from the obvious sleep, love, drinks and the internet, and not in order of importance:
- hugs
- books
- friends
- playfullness
- my nephews
- sunsets and weather changes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... life, I guess. Is there anything else?
(And my next move(s), but mainly when I'm playing chess.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a good movie or an interesting play. Around a cosy table or downtown in a nice pub with some friends. Sometimes relaxing with a book or the tv.
When none of the above, I'm playing chess.

As for Saturdays: more of the above, no chess.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I almost answered this with 'I sometimes empty my mailbox on the street in my night shorts' , but that might have been too private.
You should message me if
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you feel like messageing me. Always welcome.