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44 Santa Clara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 22
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
Has cats
My self-summary
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I am a middle school teacher in a polyamourous relationship with my wife. You probably should know what polyamory is before thinking about getting involved with me. I am looking for meeting new people who share my lifestyle and interests. Finding good friends to enjoy life with is the main reason I joined this site. Although, I am not opposed to finding new relationships, I do need to warn all who are thinking of writing me that I am involved in two important relationships at the moment (my wife and my girlfriend). So I am pretty busy. I love all the great things that life has to offer. I love books, theatre, music, good food, hiking, dancing, and probably more than should be mentioned here.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am enjoying life with my wife and girlfriend and always looking for more. Life is a banquet and most people are starving.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing one sentence answers to questions. And being a smart-ass.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I get very upset when people use the word organically when they mean naturally.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have never played the favorites game. My tastes in all of these things are so eclectic that it is difficult to say what is my favorite. Probably best to list my favorite genres. Music: rock, jazz, electronica, classical, blues, show tunes, ect. Books: I read most everything with particular love for science fiction, fantasy and history (of course). Food: Indian, Ethiopian, Mexican, Malaysian, this list could go on forever. Movies: see books.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, theatre, coffee, movies, music, and friends. Not necessarily in that order. More recently I am having a hard time being without my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All the things I don't know and how I can go about knowing them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully I am at a play. Secondly a movie, a book or whatever someone suggests.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I own more stuffed sharks than a man grown probably should.
You should message me if
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You are looking for a good friend who is open to many things.