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Petexm

44 / M / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:58pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I like to get out and listen to live music such as jazz and blues, good cover bands, see a movie or go to the zoo. I'm trying to expand my social circle. I have always hoped of bumping into a nice girl at Jewel or some other store like they do in TV and the movies but it never happens. I'm also itching to go to an open mic night and do a 5 mintue comedy set. I have a great family and great friends who support everything I do. I like kids but don't want them.

I am funny, smart, and laid back.
I have never been married.
I don't want to have kids If you have some that's fine.
What I’m doing with my life
I am in a transition with my career. I am a supervisor at a coffee store but interested in property management. I have a part time job at a residential condo building off the lake in Lincoln Park doing security in order to help with the transition. I'm a work in progress with keeping my home clean, discovering new strengths and working on getting in better shape. Trying to shed 10 libs through walking, riding my bike and eating fewer carbs.
I’m really good at
Pictionary, Cranium, making people laugh and listening. I also have a lot of patience and always try to make someone feel good about themselves.
The first things people usually notice about me
What kind of a question is this? The only thing I would say to anyone is comment/compliment on their clothing or jewelry! I have a bald spot. It doesn't bug me. My perfect vision offsets it. I have found it easier to live without hair than without vision!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
24, David Letterman, 2.5 Men, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory. I'm also fond of Touch, Person of Interest, Elementary and The Following. Thai, Italian and some Middle Eastern cuisine. I enjoy jazz and blues and going to hear cover bands that play music that I grew up on.
The six things I could never do without
XM satellite radio
Sonicare toothbrush and floss
a clean home
my tempurpedic bed
most of my family
the CTA
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How women are looking for "no drama .." How is that possible to find? If you're an adult over 25 some shit has happened to you and you dealt with it. It's what makes us who we are. It gives us STORIES! Get over it .. otherwise you're looking for a robot. I'm actually looking for some drama.
How do people overcome fears?
Why is this site matching me with women who want kids? If that answer is different, the match rate should not go above zero.
What's the difference between short-term and long-term dating? Why isn't there an option for "I'm looking to get past the first or second date?"
Why do women write back to tell me they're NOT interested? I thought it was protocol to indicate that they ARE interested if returning a message.
Why people use the word "literally". Please stop it. We'll understand what your saying from the context. Same thing with "in the future" and "in the past."
Why do some women say they like/love to laugh? Is there a person on the planet who doesn't like to laugh?
Why do some women have their only picture taken from 60 feet away wearing sunglasses and a hat? Show us what you look like!
Ok ladies ... in the "Six things we can't do without ...", AIR, WATER, AND SHELTER DON"T COUNT! Those are ALL human needs.
If a woman will ever initiate contact
On a typical Friday night I am
channel surfing or relaxing for now until my weekends open up and sharing a meal with dad
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to have a collection of 45 RPM records and "somehow" back in 1987 I bought Tiffany's "Coulda Been". Or one of my friends slipped it in. For anyone under 30, a 45 RPM is an small vinyl record that you played on a turn table. The record company put one song on each side. The turntable used a needle that translated grooves into electrical signals and then into sound vibrations ...
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you'd like a fun evening with an intelligent, funny and outgoing guy who will make you laugh ...