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38 M Ōsaka, Japan

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:30pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Dutch-a-Rican man trying to make it in this world. Work by day, musician by night. Love to work out and play hockey. Reading and chocolate are essential or I suffer. : )

Spent the last 8 years of my life living in Japan, and carrying my own chopsticks. Now I travel a lot and work in a few places, always shaking, bobbing and taking of my shoes at the airport.

I'm rusty at this Western World dating thing. Hoping to meet and greet, have drinks and potential long term company solutions are also welcomed. If I travel, maybe tour guides. Just kidding. No seriously, I can never fold maps properly.

Love to laugh. A life without smiles is no life at all. If you can match my quick wit, then we got something cooking.

I like giving high ratings to profiles that I like without a care for where you are in the world. If I think you're a good looking woman with a great profile, why not give you 4-5 stars? If you're far, it means, "thumbs up lady and go get them!" If you're near it means, "thumbs up lady and come get me!"

Remember: the "Hannibal" in Hannibal Lecter is spelled with two Ns. There will be a test later.
What I’m doing with my life
Education consulting, playing music and trying to stave off boredom.
I’m really good at
Cooking and picking out wine. Life is not Merlots and Chards. But I'm best at picking which lane is going to move first during rush hour traffic. It's a gift really.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my arms. They say, "are your arms a shade of cafe con leche?" And I say, why yes, they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sherlock Holmes and mystery/suspense novels, anything about space and octopi. Vonnegut, Murakami and HS Thompson are staples, but I read anything and everything.

Used to love flicks but I've become that person who is always saying,"you know, I've never seen that". Don't ask me about the Oscars, it will lead to tuna fish. Still, I'm a sucker for Bruce Willis flicks. Oh yeah, how did I forget Bill Murray? Anything with Bill in it is thumbs up. Except for Garfield, but hey...

Recently, I'm more into documentaries.
Update: I watched every Oscar Nominee from this past year. Hazzuh!

I enjoy picking out fresh meats and fish on Sundays. Don't fear coriander, embrace cumin.
The six things I could never do without
Lip balm, a guitar, pen and paper(although iPhone apps and Dropbox have taken my ink away), peanut butter, socks and slippers(not together). Can't go barefoot. I just can't.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Are they any people left who don't need memes and social media to communicate? Are we headed towards cranial USB port implants?

Who wrote "House of the Rising Sun"?

Can I go to the Crossroads and get a deal myself?

What will my kids tell their therapist about me?

Recently? "I hope she doesn't think I'm a perv or anything 'cause I looked at her profile more than once. I honestly forgot I've read it before! Why did she change her profile pic!?!?"

Even more recently: what do "thanks for visiting my profile" messages mean? Is that her way of opening the dialogue or is she really polite? I have no idea.

More, more recently: why does she use the picture that she has blur the face or cut out the person next to her. And why is that random forearm around her so hairy?
On a typical Friday night I am Trying out new recipes or playing live music or playing late night hockey.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I looooove shopping. Yeah, I'm straight.
(Don't take this question too seriously. Have some fun with it, relax ladies)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if enjoy smiling and think that going to the movies is not a real date option. How do you get to know each other like that? Save it for date number 10+ or for when you are actually a couple.

"Hi" or "Hey" really don't lend any substance for me to reply. Help me out here. Give me something I would want to reply too ;)

Also, I'm not one to have a back and forth conversation through messages or tell you my life story in a message. Let's meet and/or take the conversation elsewhere ;)
Chat apps are great too.

If you are fine with chatting and making a new friend at first, then I promise to bring some wit and humor into the fray.