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32 Tempe, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:43pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Okay), Polish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an Arizona native who a few years ago said F*$k it to my job as a software engineer at a major defense contractor in Scottsdale and decided to try something new. Tired with the life of a mid-level corporate drone, I figured I either needed to travel around the world or go to grad school.

So here I am, currently in my fifth year of a PhD at Arizona State University trying to wrap it up. About the same time I started back at school, I also decided to buy and begin to eternally fix up a 20 year old Jeep Wrangler. Both of which I genuinely love... much of the time. I've still managed to find the time and resources to do some traveling - backpacking in East Europe (I gave a talk on economics and democracy in Poland), road tripping down the Baja, and of course various casual trips around the US.

I can be a pretty passionate nerd about economics, math, history, and politics (as well as gunsmithing, robotics, jeep mechanics, physics, and such) all of which I enjoy talking about, especially over scotch and cigars.

I've become a pretty avid bicyclist, I have a nice old road bike and barely seem to drive anymore.

Above all else, I value openness and try to embrace that when I can. That means openness to new things, people, experiences, but also openness to self criticism and change. I know who I am and really enjoy trying to improve that and need the same from a partner.


Currently, I'm in a relationship with a bisexual girl on here. We're interested in meeting other girls or maybe a couple that has similar interests for friends or possibly other arrangements. We aren't particularly looking to date polyamorously without each other right now though that may change again at some point. This is a new kind of relationship and experience for me at this point but I find that to be a big part of the fun.

Feel free to email if you think you might be interested in the above, want to talk, or just think we might have a chance of being good friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm not a racist, but.... I kind of want to compete in an wilderness endurance race one day. (I recently saw someone mention that there's no good way to end a sentence started as such so I thought I'd give it a try)

Keeping busy. Working on my research involving labor economics and recessions, traveling when and where I can (recently been hitting up the Baja, sailing around California, and cross country drives).

I've been working on becoming an avid runner, doing solo half marathons and more but I've got long way to go. I love hiking and biking as well.

Weird random hobbies and crafts when I can justify stealing myself away from research and friends - everything from cooking and pickling to welding projects, robotics, and gunsmithing. I'm often working on my jeep or up at my folks working in their workshop. ...but mostly these days if I'm not working on my research, I'm reading, cooking, playing board games, or outside working out.
I’m really good at
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Math, economics, software killing spiders, bonfire evenings, road trips...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the beard and barrel chest
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mostly read for my research...other than that I'm generally reading current events or history but when I was younger I read a lot of : Asimov, Hemingway, Tolkien, Dumas, Steinbeck.... Just finishing Ceasar's Gallic Wars and think I might have to add it to my list and would be curious about finding others in similar vein.

Most movies, classics, adventures, terrible horror or action movies.

I don't have cable, but do allow myself the occasional morphine drip on Netflix from time to time... Dexter, Futurama, Mad Men, the office...

Classic Rock, Outlaw Country, Indie, Folk, old Metal, the occasional Symphony or Opera, most anything. I've been listening to a lot of Roger Clyne, CCR, Mumford & Sons, Hank Wiliams Sr, Jack Johnson, and Johnny Cash lately...and somehow ska has gotten into the mix.

Anything - Veggies, bloody meat, spicy ethnic food, seafood...favorite is probably Mariscos (aka Mexican seafood)

Scotch, good beer, red wine...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't need much but I do like open spaces and purpose in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My research, traveling, cooking, books...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking something new, going on a jog, and either having a drink at home watching a movie, or going out with friends for a round of beers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've also found myself more and more interested in exploring the kink world and different parts of my personality, and the personalities of others. I like talking about it but don't like leaving too much public.
You should message me if
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you're ok with me being in a relationship right now and are interested in that or are simply interested in being friends or just talk. I'm pretty busy with my school/work but enjoy talking to new people.

I'm pretty hesitant about messaging people given my current situation so will probably only instigate right now if you make it clear you'd be interested.