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31 M Tempe, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:56am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Okay), Polish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an Arizona native who a few years ago said F*$k it to my job as a software engineer at a major defense contractor in Scottsdale and decided to try something new. Tired with the life of a mid-level corporate drone, I figured I either needed to travel around the world or go to grad school.

So here I am, currently in my fifth year of a PhD at Arizona State University trying to wrap it up. About the same time I started back at school, I also decided to buy and begin to eternally fix up a 20 year old Jeep Wrangler. Both of which I genuinely love... much of the time. I've still managed to find the time and resources to do some traveling - backpacking in East Europe (I gave a talk on economics and democracy in Poland), road tripping down the Baja, and of course various casual trips around the US.

I can be a pretty passionate nerd about economics, math, history, and politics (as well as gunsmithing, robotics, jeep mechanics, physics, and such) all of which I enjoy talking about, especially over scotch and cigars.

I've become a pretty avid bicyclist, I have a nice old road bike and barely seem to drive anymore.


Currently I'm in an open relationship with an awesome bisexual girl who is also on here. I'm pretty busy with work and life but am always up for meeting awesome people. I'm not used to polyamorous dating but have never had a problem with jealousy and am enjoying keeping things simple.

If you're interested in keeping things fun, casual, and safe, and enjoy making new friends you should let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm not a racist, but.... I kind of want to compete in an wilderness endurance race one day. (I recently saw someone mention that there's no good way to end a sentence started as such so I thought I'd give it a try)

Keeping busy. Working on my research involving labor economics and recessions, traveling when and where I can (recently been hitting up the Baja, sailing around California, and cross country drives).

I've been working on becoming an avid runner, doing solo half marathons and more but I've got long way to go. I love hiking and biking as well.

Weird random hobbies and crafts when I can justify stealing myself away from research and friends - everything from cooking and pickling to welding projects, robotics, and gunsmithing. I'm often working on my jeep or up at my folks working in their workshop. ...but mostly these days if I'm not working on my research, I'm reading, cooking, playing board games, or outside working out.
I’m really good at
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Math, economics, software killing spiders, bonfire evenings, road trips...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the beard and barrel chest
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mostly read for my research...other than that I'm generally reading current events or history but when I was younger I read a lot of : Asimov, Hemingway, Tolkien, Dumas, Steinbeck.... Just finishing Ceasar's Gallic Wars and think I might have to add it to my list and would be curious about finding others in similar vein.

Most movies, classics, adventures, terrible horror or action movies.

I don't have cable, but do allow myself the occasional morphine drip on Netflix from time to time... Dexter, Futurama, Mad Men, the office...

Classic Rock, Outlaw Country, Indie, Folk, old Metal, the occasional Symphony or Opera, most anything. I've been listening to a lot of Roger Clyne, CCR, Mumford & Sons, Hank Wiliams Sr, Jack Johnson, and Johnny Cash lately...and somehow ska has gotten into the mix.

Anything - Veggies, bloody meat, spicy ethnic food, seafood...favorite is probably Mariscos (aka Mexican seafood)

Scotch, good beer, red wine...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't need much but I do like open spaces and purpose in life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My research, traveling, cooking, books...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking something new, going on a jog, and either having a drink at home watching a movie, or going out with friends for a round of beers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've also found myself more and more interested in exploring the kink world and different parts of my personality, and the personalities of others. I like talking about it but don't like leaving too much public.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you're ok with me being in an open relationship right now and are not looking to date seriously or exclusively.

Right now, I'm primarily looking for more the low impact, casual dating/friends/sex thing, hopefully intermixed with some hiking/running/picnics/museum trips/drinking/billiards/ homecooking experiment extravaganzas, board games, and the potential for other de-stressing carnal endeavors if the mood fits.