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PhantomDrum

62 M San Ramon, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I have always been a little bit of a rebel, slightly off the wall, and enjoy doing crazy things, going to unusual places, or simply doing something new. I am a creature of logic, and I use my intellect to guide me. It’s not uncommon for me to disagree with the conventional wisdom, and I am not afraid to speak up for what I believe is right. Justice is important to me. I am well-established and confident in my position, both personally and professionally. I consider myself well-spoken and appreciate the company of a woman who is likewise capable of conversation on a variety of subjects, and interested in the news of the day. I also have a tender, affectionate, and nurturing side, and would appreciate the same in a partner. People who know me will tell you that I am very calm, and that I tend to be calming to those around me. My goal is to find a kind and like-minded lady who is also relaxed, and doesn't obsess over the little things; someone who knows what is really important in life; and someone whom I can take care of and who will take care of me. I am a man of honesty and integrity, and seek a lady who values those traits. My ideal would be to find someone like myself, who is a curious mix of sophistication and salt-of-the-earth; a lady who could feel equally at home attending an art exhibition or going to an upscale restaurant, while still enjoying a bike ride, a walk, or perhaps a picnic and a day at the beach. She should dress-up well when the time is right, but also enjoy wearing jeans. As far as the first date is concerned, I’m not going to say something fanciful like going on a trip to Paris or anything like that. It may sound a bit square, but I really think a cup of coffee or a drink together can actually make for a very romantic first date. What better way to make a connection with a lady than to sit across from her just a few feet away, perhaps be able to catch a whiff of her perfume, and especially be able to look deep into her eyes. They say that to look into one's eyes is to look into the depths of their soul, and I believe that to be true. After an hour or two in conversation this way, one can learn an awful lot about your date. I am an optimist at heart. I feel that the world is full of wonderful things to see and do, and I want to take part in them all. Drama or depression is not my thing. You may be the one if you are secure in yourself, and have a positive, fun-loving, and affectionate outlook on life!
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
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Being laid-back.
Not sweating the small things.
Putting things in their proper perspective.
Logical thinking.
Paying attention to the right things in life, which are often the little things.
Being loyal; a good friend and father.
Putting people at ease.
Showing people new ways of looking at problems & viewing the world from different perspectives.
Photography & an eye for beauty in the world.
Decorating. Putting together color and form. Making a bold statement.
Confidence in my own abilities.
Fixing things.
Knowledge of lots of "stuff."
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes.
My powers of logic and reasoning.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My daughters.
2. My friends.
3. Music.
4. Nature.
5. My powers of reasoning.
6. The wonderful variety of things, places, people, ideas, and cultures in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical!
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