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Phanzarelli

54 / M / straight / Single

Gastonia, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am Cultured, Decent, and Compassionate.

My Self-Summary

I'm pretty sure I was born with the happy gene !! I always treat all people with respect and never use bad language. I try to help people every day even when I don't feel like it !! What good is life if you can't help others and listen to their problems.

What I’m doing with my life

I am trying to be more selfless. I am like a fish out of water without a family atmosphere, so this is my goal. As far as career I am looking for a good position in Pastry that suits me. I do have a degree in it.

I’m really good at

Making kids laugh !!! Dropping everything to help a friend any time of day or night. Being the strong, stable influence when all else is chaotic.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes and my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music all kinds including classical. Food definately my own cooking with the best ingredients : Italian or Thai

The six things I could never do without

Knowing I have a good job with benefits.
A reliable car.
NPR.
My continued good health.
Birkenstocks.
Knowing God will provide all I need.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to help people and lighten their load.

On a typical Friday night I am

In bed by nine as usual, I get up early.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I will not rest until I find a family situation !!
Not having kids is the biggest mistake of my life ...
hands down. I know it's hard, but what a void I've had !!

You should message me if

You are interested in a hardworking, stable, decent guy.