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PhatBennyB

35 M Nanaimo, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Management
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well now... What to say. Hmmm.
I'm really bad at introducing myself in essay form.
Also I'm shy about making first contact online. Which is odd, because I'm actually very out going in person.

I'm a musician, comedian, and writer. I'm the Assistant Manager of a Liquor Store and I record and play music as a hobby. It would be nice to expand it into a career, but I'm realistic. I play bass well, keyboard poorly, and I used to play saxophone but my lungs are kinda shot... (asthma)

Mostly these days I rap and do spoken word.
BUT I do "conscious rap" not that angry, heavy, hard, 'gangsta' stuff.

I like intelligence and wisdom. Both very different things, both equally important to me.

I've already answered a lot of question on this site and filled in the other fields. Until I can think of something more to put in here, feel free to browse and ask me any questions you want.
Face to face I'll talk your ear off if you want (haha) but online I find it hard to write about myself, but at least I tried... lol

Oh! Big clarifier: I smoke pot, I don't do other drugs. Period.
I just thought I'd mention it because I was honest and clicked "often" for drug use. POT ONLY. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
... thoroughly enjoying it. :)

And of course.... Music, Music, Music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting myself into the dreaded friend zone..... lol
I'm really REALLY good at that! Bahaha
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My kind eyes and genuine smile. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
1) Hitchhikers Guide to The Galaxy(whole series), Douglas Adams
2) Excavation, Jame Rollins
3) Hocus Pocus, Kurt Vonnegut
4) Steal this Book, Abbie Hoffman
5) How to shit in the woods, Kathleen Meyer

Movies:
1) Time Bandits
2) Labyrinth
3) The Castle (Australian)

TV:
1) Any Louie Theroux documentary
2) Modern Family
3) Game of Thrones
4) Breaking Bad
5) Night Court - Woohoo to 80's tv! :)

Food:
hmmmmm.... I love to cook. I love to cook FOR people.
I love new recipes. I mostly cook from a very Mediterranean spice palate. Lot of veggies, and fish. I'm a really healthy/balanced eater.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Music
2) Books
3) Love
and 3 other things I can't think of... lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The current state of the world and the declining average intelligence of people in modern society....

....and boobs. hahahaha ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No Friday night is typical for me! It's something different all the time. Lately I've been either going to rehearsal, spending time in the studio recording or going to perform (usually at The Cambie).
When I'm not preforming I'm either curled up with a good book or writing a new song or just chilling at home with my two kitties. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me anything. No really, ANYTHING.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you have any other questions or just want to say hi. :)