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Phatsamurai

30 / M / straight / Single

Escondido, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am Funny, Dorky, and Romantic.

My Self-Summary

A summary? Bah! It is simply impossible to summarize my greatness! Ok, yeah, I'm full of it. But I did say bah, so that should have kept you reading. I hate to summarize, but I will for the sake of your sanity. I like talk. My charisma is one of my strengths, so jokes, stories, and just chit-chat. Communication is one of my mandatory factors. I keep an open mind, and I'm forthright, as well as patient and kind. Faith and integrity, dorkiness and predictable unpredictability...

What I’m doing with my life

I've only recently discovered my ambitions in the work place, so I'm giving alot of my effort to my job, but I don't do much else currently, so it's working out well. I work in an interesting mix of hospitality, and security.

I’m really good at

Making people laugh, breaking the ice, reading people... I'm a good listener, though I offer too much advice sometimes. I've lived a varied life, and learned alot, so I try to share that. I'm a problem solver. I like challenges, especially stuff that requires me to think outside of the box.

The first things people usually notice about me

My wit and charm. I could have said "that I'm fat" but I choose to be optimistic.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Comic books! I love all types of movies, and music. I'm an artist, and music resonates with me. I read a lot of Dean Koontz, and fantasy stuff. I lurve chinese and italian food.

The six things I could never do without

My laptop, my phone, my bed (oh I love it sooo) Christmas tree-lights, rain, and the scent of a woman's hair. That's my crack, and Kryponite.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Love. What I want, and who I'm becoming as the days become months and on to years. I'm happy with my progress, but at times there are some things I despair I may never do/have.

On a typical Friday night I am

recently, sleeping, but that's a temp situation. Usually hanging with friends. Going to the movies, stuff like that. I'm not terribly exciting.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm not a very private person for the most part, but I'll toss you a embarrassing fact about me...I regularly play role playing games like D&D. Sad, aint it?

You should message me if

...you want a cure for boredom. Depends on what you want really. If you are romantically inclined, be warned I'm a HOPELESS romantic. If you're wanting a friend, be prepared for the barrage of Geekery. otherwise, who knows. i like to be suprised, so suprise me.