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31 Hespeler, Ontario, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on Two-year college
Has kids and might want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Summary right? I guess that means keep it short, which I am terrible at.

I'm a big geek/nerd.
I love sci-fi, old and new.
I play video games.
I love movies and shows that make you think.
I'm a walking book of knowledge, both useful, and not.
I write books(sci-fi/spec-fi/fantasy).

I'm honest, to a fault sometimes.
I believe in logic and science, but respect that some decisions need more.
I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic at times.
I can be argumentative and diplomatic in the same sentence.
I don't believe in settling for the first relationship that comes along,unless it's the right one.
I'm stubborn, but if someone makes a good case I'm willing to change my perspective.

Ignorance is a pet peeve. Both in regards to knowledge, and one's behaviour towards others.

I'm content with much of my life, but would like a partner in crime to enjoy it with.

Apparently the new thing on here is to include our Jung-Briggs-Myers Personality rating.
Mine: INTP -
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it.


Oh, and trying to conquer immortality.

Starting March 2015 I'm back to school full time until January 2017. My schedule will be getting pretty busy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Video games, unique creative ideas, picking up on new things quickly, designing and building computers, procrastinating, creating odd food concoctions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, I have no clue. People don't exactly walk around going "Hey, the first thing I noticed about you is yadda, yadda."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: pizza. I love most foods, but pizza is my fav.
Drinks: Tea(preferably Earl Grey), good scotch or whiskey.

Movies and Shows: Most Star Trek, Anything with Bruce Campbell, anything by Jos Weedon, lots of sci-fi stuff (old and new), and a large list of others.

Books: Battletech, Marvel Comics, DC Comics, some Star Trek novels, If Chins Could Kill, anything from Mira Grant, DJ Molles, Peter V. Brett, Orson Scott Card, John Scalzi...probably some other authors, and random white papers on something science-y.

Music: older Linkin Park, The Prodigy, The Chemical Brothers, Tiesto, In Flames, Aerosmith, Garth Brooks, Daft Punk, etc, etc.
Some more recent additions to my music list have included July Talk, Of Monsters and Men, and Royal Blood.

Video Games (because these are a part of my life, albeit a largely reduced part these days): Mechwarrior Online, first person shooters, zombie games, etc
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Son
My Phone
My Computer
My Mind (If I were ever brain damaged I would want to be put down. Seriously. Without my mind, existence is pointless.)

I'm surprisingly capable of just letting go of things if it were truly necessary, so those few things are pretty much what I'd like to not live without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Life, love, work, fun, random idea #546852, friends, family, what if's and why's and how's and all the fun stuff of the universe.
My brain likes to analyse all of the different possible outcomes of a situation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, gaming, writing, hanging with friends, or out doing terrible karaoke
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a hero complex, and secretly wish I had super powers so I could go out and save people.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to chat, grab some form of beverage or just geek out.
If you want to discuss what superpower you would love to have.
You want to kick my butt in a video game, or even if you're curious about my writing.

A Note About What I Want In A Woman: You are hopefully clever, have a healthy dose of sarcasm, and share some similar interests. You have reasonable spelling and grammar, and understand the differences between you're & your, and they're, there, and their. You like to have intelligent conversations.
Ideally you would encourage me to better myself in every capacity (mentally, physically, and emotionally), but understand and respect me when I don't always succeed the first time.
Hopefully you like reading and can provide me constructive feedback on my writing.
Are strong of mind and spirit. Independent, but not closed-off.
Most of all you understand that "dating" doesn't end once two people are serious. By this, I mean that you like to keep the relationship healthy by doing new things together.
You are not: Someone who likes to put on so much makeup it makes you look plastic or fake. Don't think duck faces are cool. Are not into mind games and BS. Don't wear animal print unless it's for a costume (It's REALLY tacky in my opinion).