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23 Portland, OR Agender, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Non-binary, Genderqueer

Agender, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Non-binary, Genderqueer

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  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:59am
Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Heteroflexible, Queer, Bisexual
Native American, White
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on University
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat), Swedish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"I sit in my cubicle, here on the motherworld. When I die, they will put my body in a box and dispose of it in the cold ground. And in all the million ages to come, I will never breathe or laugh or twitch again. So won't you run and play with me here among the teeming mass of humanity? The universe has spared us this moment."
- Anonymous

I am analytical, ambitious, altruistic, and alliterative.
(Alternative) Scientific, Humanitarian, Übermensch

TL;DR version of my profile, my interests in no particular order are as follows:
Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, Biology, Psychology, Sociology, Philosophy, Politics, History, Linguistics, Anthropology, Ecology, Permaculture, Engineering, Technology, Futurism, Primitivism, Transhumanism, Video Games, Reading, Writing, Debate, Teaching, Movies, TV, Music, Military, Social Justice, Gender Abolition, Sexuality, Drugs, Firearms, Medicine, Magic the Gathering, Volunteer work, Body art, Anarchism, Socialism, Exercise, Physical outdoor activities excluding sports, Spending time with people, Helping people.
For a list of what kind of people I'm interested in, see the "You Should Message Me If" section. Dislikes are in the "I spend a lot of time thinking about" section

I greatly enjoy thinking and intellectual discourse. I am constantly trying to improve myself and help others. I don't care about the past beyond the lessons which can be gleaned from it. I have strong views on most subjects and love talking with people. I am an everchanging person for the better as new information becomes available and as I go on my adventure through the universe and making mistakes, I use every opportunity I can to learn and grow as a person. Consequently, it'd be difficult to get bored of me as I'm very fluid. To know me is to talk to me often, as my thoughts, ideas, and experiences may never cease changing. However, I always know exactly who I am and what I want out of life, even if that changes slightly.


Philosophies, concepts, and worldviews I subscribe to, identify with, or receive inspiration from: Stoicism, Determinism, Naturalism, Materialism, Rationalism, Gender Abolitionism, Secular Humanism, Utilitarianism, Master Morality, Übermensch, Kantian Moral Philosophy, Eudaimonia, Utopia, Ásatrú


Always had very radical views, recently discovered Anarchism as an ideology and Anarcho-Communism specifically. I consider the state and capitalism to cause more problems than they solve, and I can probably discuss this subject at more length than any other.

If someone says something politically charged, I'm going to discuss it. If someone says something problematic and even vaguely racist/sexist/transphobic/ableist, I'm going to call them out on it, I have a zero tolerance policy for that kind of stuff.


Pansexual but do not find masculinity attractive, unless the person is very androgynous.
I enjoy certain aspects of kink, but it's not a big part of my life.
Enjoy feeling of both dominance and submission
Agendered, I don't identify as male or female as part of being a gender abolitionist, but I am biologically male.
I am Trans-Friendly so don't take the above as a sign that I'm not.
Polyamorous is what's convenient for me at the moment, I'm open to monogamous relationships, but I won't jump into them and my standards are significantly higher.
Very high sex drive.
I feel very strongly that people shouldn't have sex with people they don't respect and it should happen in the absence of social pressure, coercion, obligation, and transaction; with clearly established consent
Would like to have children (via surrogate mother if necessary) after I get my college degree. It's far enough away to where I don't really think about it often.
I'm hypothetically open to casual sex, but I don't list myself for it because it causes more (sometimes hetero) cismen who don't read my profile to send me inane messages. I like androgynous and effeminate men who are hairless and not heavier than me, if you're a guy and that doesn't describe you don't message me!


ENTP describes me extremely well regardless it might be pseudoscience or not, the description of ENTP is a very close description of me.
IQ 130-145+, plan on taking a more formal test and joining MENSA
I tend to obsess over things (not people) for hours, sometimes days and forget about other things. Hard for me to focus when I'm alone.
420 and other drug friendly as long as it's not abuse/addiction. I like to enjoy a psychedelic once every few months and I drink alcohol maybe twice a month.
Balance of Egotism and Egalitarian. I sometimes appear egotistical, but it's more of a joke to be than anything else. I tend to put others needs well being above my own. As my exposure to radical politics increases, my ego has been shrinking more and more, but I still value myself equally.
Friendly and very energetic.
Very extroverted and enjoy spending time with and meeting new people, but not very outgoing. I'm conscious of how I appear to others, and avoid making others uncomfortable.
I'm easy to draw into a debate despite it not being my preferred method of exchanging thoughts and ideas.
I can be absent minded sometimes and not pay attention to certain details.
The only meat I typically eat is chicken, so I'm a pollotarian. It's not a moral imperative for me and pushing any dietary habits on others would be imperialistic and ethnocentric.
In solidarity with Feminists though not a feminist because I view it as a womens movement for liberation and does not need male voices.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attending Portland Community College until I get my associate's, then likely transferring to University of Washington, Seattle to major in Bioengineering or possibly dual major in Molecular/Cellular/Developmental Biology. Long-term, I'd like to do research in Tissue Engineering and work on applications to Senescence such as artificial organs.

I'm presently in the Army National Guard as a combat medic. No, I'm not a fascist or militarist nor do I agree with any decisions the U.S military has made, ever. Why I joined is a very long and personal matter and I really don't like being judged for it.

After I get my undergrad, I'm hoping to go to grad school and then possibly post-grad. After that, I plan on moving to Germany and doing research related to Biogerontology preferably at a university.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with ideas and solutions to problems, thinking, reasoning, rationalizing, being logical, being redundant (I do it for emphasis and humor), serendipity, loving, being affectionate, understanding and helping people, remaining calm and composed around others in a stressful environment, emotional stability, computer games, dancing. Being multifaceted, versatile, and adaptative. Having fun and being happy in just about any given situation with other people; picking apart systems of things and improving on them; seeing good in people, validating peoples emotions, admitting when I'm wrong.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Intelligence, eccentricity, wit, ambition, meticulousness, ideological creativity, big red lips, eyes; I have blue/green central heterochromia
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy philosophical, sci-fi, and fantasy books.

I have a hard time enjoying movies, with plot holes and unacceptable breaks from reality. A few I very much enjoyed were The Hunger Games, Fight Club, V for Vendetta, Enemy at the Gates, They Live!, Network, Lord of War, Avatar, Meet Joe Black, The Green Mile, Get Him To The Greek, Howl's Moving Castle, Braveheart, Princess Bride, Good Will Hunting, Limitless, Schindler's List, Pulp Fiction, All Quiet On The Western Front, Valkyrie

TV Shows: The Colbert Report, Futurama, Any of Bill Hicks' or George Carlin's standup, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Scrubs, House, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Grimm, Nova, Through the Wormhole Cosmos, Prison Break, Fringe, Weeds, Breaking Bad, Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman, Red Wall, Archer, Tosh.0, Boy Meets World, Maclom In The Middle, Cowboy Bepop, Inuyasha, Fullmetal Alchemist, Ed Edd and Eddy, Game of Thrones, Spartacus, The Walking Dead, Band of Brothers, Sherlock

Music by Genre:

General top favourite - 90's and Early 2000's Alternative Rock, Grunge, and Metal.
Others include:
Metal: Alternative, Industrial, Gothic, Pagan, Folk, Viking, Symphonic, Power, Black, and Heavy
Rock: Punk, Gothic, Alternative, Indie and Post
Other: Folk, World Music, Grunge, EBM, Aggrotech, Darkwave, Ambient, Chillstep, Psychedelic, IDM, Avant-garde, Experimental, Parody, Steampunk, Post-Punk, Post-Industrial, Neofolk, Neoclassical, carefully measured and limited variety of Hip Hop, Europop, and Martial Industrial
Dislike: Pop, Gangster Rap, Death Metal, Country

Music by FAVOURITE Bands: Rammstein, Oomph!, Eisbrecher, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, Alice in Chains, The Smashing Pumpkins, Garbage, HIM, Bright Eyes, Death Cab for Cutie, Radhiohead, Lord of the Lost, Marilyn Manson, Linkin Park, Green Day, System of a Down, Rage Against the Machine, Puscifer, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Project Pitchfork, Depeche Mode, Wingnut Dishwasher's Union, Rise Against, Chumbawumba, Green Day NOFX, Ghost A.D, Ruoska, Sabaton, Heidevolk, Korpiklaani, Solstafir, Eluveitie, Falkenbach, Omnia, Woods of Ypres, Celldweller, Deltron 3030, Flobots, Macklemore, Immortal Technique, Bloodhound Gang, Gorillaz, The Decemberists, Ghoultown, Voltaire, Jonathan Coulton, Paul and Storm, Turmion Kätilöt, Beats Antique, Pertubator, Combichrist, Aesthetic Perfection, Overwerk, Lustre, Emancipator, Carbon Based Lifeforms, NiTgRiT, Death in June, Dr. Steel

Food: Anything new or exotic, traditional European food, Terriyaki and Sushi. Normally I keep a fairly healthy diet with occasional fasting.

Games: Cid Meier's Alpha Centauri, Bioshock, Warhammer 40,000, League of Legends, Mechwarrior Online, Tribes:Ascend, Heroes of Might and Magic III , Final Fantasy 7, 10, 12, and anything made by Blizzard, ID Software, Bioware, Valve, or Bethesda since 1993.

Webseries/Webcomics: Neurotically Yours, Penny-Arcade, Ctrl+Alt+Del, XKCD, VG cats, The Stone Maker Argument, Saint Gasoline, Cyanide & Happiness, Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal, Surviving the World, Oglaf, Menage a 3, and Rock Paper Cynic, Piled Higher and Deeper, The Oatmeal, Scandanavia and the World.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Smartass answer:
1) Cellular Organization
2) Metabolism
3) Homeostasis
4) Adaptation
5) Response to Stimuli
6) Growth and Reproduction

Understanding what the question is getting at answer:
1) Other people,
2) Entertainment,
3) Internet access,
4) Something soft to sleep on,
5) My mental and physical health,
6) A method of recording my ideas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, from quantum physics, to jokes, psychology, to friends, philosophy, to politics, to sex to video games, to eugenics, to self improvement, to the ultimate fate of the universe and a cornucopia of things that I did not mention.

Dislikes : Gender Roles, Artistic Symbolism/Representational Art, Poetry, Religion, Capitalism, Imperialism, Money, Law, Gambling, Competition, Sports, Authority, Militarism, Pacifism, Conservative/Reactionary Politics, Exploitation, Oppression, Ethnocentrism, Sexism, Ableism, Homophobia, Transphobia, Poor Communication Skills, Emotional Instability, Anger, Hatred, Jealousy, Greed, Complacency, Selfishness, Manipulation, Desire for Power, Social Stratification, Shallow media that only serves to distract people rather than enlighten them or help them improve upon themselves, People who are passionless about the world with no interests or skills or hopes or dreams or goals and care only about their own insignificant lives and comfort while having no intent to find ways to make themselves better in any way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A lot of things varying from talking with friends, playing games with friends either online or LAN, or writing and researching about some new obsession on an idea and designing or improving upon a system of some sort, dancing at a nightclub, or derping around on 4Chan. Working toward self actualization.

Hobbies or Activities I want to get into but don't know the people/have the money/resources: Horseback Riding, Fencing, Archery, Parkour, Krav Maga, Speech and Debate, Programming, Magic the Gathering, DND, Camping, Swimming, Airsoft, Paintball, Laser Tag, Beekeeping, Renn Faire/Larping, miscellaneous Volunteering, Activism.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book, but here's some things anyway:

I've had this profile since the 2nd of April 2009 and until 11/21/2013 it ranged from 50 to 75 paragraphs long

In middle school I was an overemotional loner with no friends.

As a child I was abused by my mother's drug dealer.

I never swore or drank until I was 18.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please don't message me with some plain, boring greeting. If there's something specifically that caught your interest, bring it up in your message. If you're only wanting to message me because of how I look, please don't. I give a lot of information about interest in many subjects, so it's not like I've made this difficult for you.

If I interest you and if you think you can meet more of the criteria below than not. Physical characteristics aren't as important unless you're a cis-male. I find roughly 90% of men unappealing, sorry.

I make a conscious effort to not be a hypocrite; I don't hold anyone to any standard I myself cannot meet. More than anything, I seek an equal in most qualities. Similarities are a turn on.

Aesthetic Characteristics (not so important and based on my personal standards of beauty so just because someone doesn't meet these doesn't mean they're not gorgeous or wonderful)
Blondish, reddish, or dyed hair
Blue, green, hazel, eyes or custom contact lenses
Tall (Closer to my height is preferred, and this is only a positive for female bodied individuals)
Tattoos and piercings
Identify with alternative/counter culture
Facial Symmetry
(cis-males only) effeminate/androgynous, thin and not stronger than me.

Important Characteristics
(not cis-males) Assertive/Aggressive
Very passionate about ideas, social issues, the world, etc., indifference is a huge turn-off.
Has/pursuing a STEM degree.
High sex drive (And open to enjoying clean anal play)
Enjoys online gaming (Not MMO or Console) and outdoor adventures
Very energetic
Sense of humor
Emotionally stable
Good communicator
Heavily values logic
Challenges me intellectually in a respectful manner
Can bounce ideas back and forth
Cares deeply about people, animals, and the world
Motivated to accomplish things and good at following through
Atheist/Secular Humanist/Pagan/Determinist
Socialist/Anarchist leanings

I'm EXTREMELY interested in meeting and networking with anyone who is involved in any way with the following fields: Biomathematics, Biophysics, Biochemistry, Microbiology/Molecular Biology, Genetics/Epigenetics, Genomics/Epigenomics, Cell Biology, Cell Physiology, Physiology, Organismal Biology, Developmental Biology, Senescence/Biogerontology, Computational Biology/ Bioinformatics, Structural Biology, Systems Biology, Network Biology, Biotechnology, Bioengineering/Biomedical Engineering, Cellular Engineering, Tissue Engineering, Genetic Engineering, Metabolic Engineering, Bioprocess Engineering, Biosystems Engineering and any Medical Doctorates planning on doing Medical Research. Ideally I would end up with someone focused in one of these fields.