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PhilipMax

53 / M / Straight / Single

Novato, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:30pm
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Looking for more, appropriately. Is it possible to explore mutual curiosity, date, and not have it be a big deal? I want to meet more people, especially women, with common interests to share experiences and expand my social circle and if in the process I found a partner I'd be delighted.
I am not interested in serially monogamous dating as I don't want to waste your time or mine. If I'm smitten, intrigued or infatuated I will date you without trying to get you in bed although I may want to.
Open is good.
Monogamy is a state of being rather than a construct of commitment. I choose non-monogamy until its "rightness" presents itself. It is OK to be friends and lovers. For me, relationships are flowers to be planted, watered and given light, while growing naturally.

That said here's more.
I don't have a clever username because although I'm clever, I'm not a user.
I need more estrogen in my life. Being in construction has me mostly around men.
I'm open to dating friendships, although in my experience cuddling DOES lead to harder sex.
I like the arts. A lot.
I'm bi-sensual. I'm not afraid to hug or massage a man.
I'm as close to a gay designer in a straight guy as possible. I arrange flowers and like to make soap and nice smelling lotions.
I am not a metro-sexual as I don't have the build to pull it off.
A sewing machine is just another power tool.
Although not entrenched in the movement, I am a maker.
I own a gun. If this offends you, we're probably not a good match.
I really like burners. Not the " I give my year to the playa " kind or the ravers, but rather the Artists, Makers and Gifters, those who are active in building a word of collaboration, gifting and anti-consumerism.
I am a freak in sheep's clothing.
I have no predisposition toward a particular body type or ethnicity in women. Does this make me open-minded or just easy?

I am creative, curious, and well read
What I’m doing with my life
Artisan contractor working and playing in the San Francisco bay area and Socal. Actively ramping up the sustainability push while looking for more fun and social life.
ART
Cycling
Jazz
Burning Man
Sustainability
Making Stuff
I’m really good at
Lots of stuff, especially making stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too long to list, I'll get back to this.
The six things I could never do without
Cheese. My dog until she dies. Good friends. Jazz. Early rising. Living near water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of the human experience on this planet and how we can do a better job. Honesty and intimacy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My feet are the body parts I would soonest replace.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You are intrigued...
You actually want to meet.
Dinner date relationship job interviews bore you to tears and you're willing to choose an activity in order to get to know me. We might turn out to be friends.