I am not interested in serially monogamous dating as I don't want to waste your time or mine. If I'm smitten, intrigued or infatuated I will date you without trying to get you in bed although I may want to.
Open is good.
Monogamy is a state of being rather than a construct of commitment. I choose non-monogamy until its "rightness" presents itself. It is OK to be friends and lovers. For me, relationships are flowers to be planted, watered and given light, while growing naturally.
That said here's more.
I don't have a clever username because although I'm clever, I'm not a user.
I need more estrogen in my life. Being in construction has me mostly around men.
I'm open to dating friendships, although in my experience cuddling DOES lead to harder sex.
I like the arts. A lot.
I'm bi-sensual. I'm not afraid to hug or massage a man.
I'm as close to a gay designer in a straight guy as possible. I arrange flowers and like to make soap and nice smelling lotions.
I am not a metro-sexual as I don't have the build to pull it off.
A sewing machine is just another power tool.
Although not entrenched in the movement, I am a maker.
I own a gun. If this offends you, we're probably not a good match.
I really like burners. Not the " I give my year to the playa " kind or the ravers, but rather the Artists, Makers and Gifters, those who are active in building a word of collaboration, gifting and anti-consumerism.
I am a freak in sheep's clothing.
I have no predisposition toward a particular body type or ethnicity in women. Does this make me open-minded or just easy?
I am creative, curious, and well read