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57 San Mateo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
6' 2" (1.88m)
Agnosticism but it’s not important
English, Chinese
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't like talking about myself and would much rather hear about you. But, in brief, I am tall, decent looking, smart and have a good job. Yeah, I know, you want to know about my spiritual side, my personality, and such; but the fact is I rarely find that people, at least in my eyes, are actually how or what they describe themselves.

I am compassionate, hopeful, and empathetic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Although I am both very serious and proud of what I do, it doesn't define me. Travel, literature, culture, and making myself better are what I am interested in and where I always want to be going both concretely and spiritually.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, thinking and I have a good memory. I have done a lot of different things in different countries and I am considerate, compassionate and empathetic. If you want a laundry list of specific practical skills I could give it to you, but you probably aren't the kind of person that I am looking for.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look and act much younger than my age. I have shaved off a full head of hair so please don't let the turtle wax shine scare you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books. Wow. Well I am in a mystery binge now and Raymond Chandler will always be The Amazing One. I am fairly well versed in the classics and loved Joseph Conrad much. I much love film, more idie stuff but Pulp Fiction, Sideways, Raise The Red Lantern, and Winter Bones, The Kings Speech are a few films I loved with some mass appeal. I really, really, really like Mad Men and Breaking Bad.
Music. Wow. Rock, Blues, Jazz, Motown, Pop, Classical. Sorry, do I need to nudge you back awake?
Food. Third Wow. I lived in Asia for a long time and ate a lot of different things and hence I am extremely open minded about food (and other stuff).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Freedom (physical, social, and intellectual)
2. Coffee (Even if it is mud)
3. My friends
4. The internet (apparently I was not functioning 20 years ago)
5. Books
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Today. Tomorrow
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends at a film, bar or event or at home cooking a meal for friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am sometimes stupidly fearless but I am afraid of blood.
You should message me if
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Well, that's up to you, but if there is interest, isn't that why we are here?

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