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56 Sacramento, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 54-62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:59pm
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity and it’s important
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Hi. My name is Phillis. I am funny, fun, faithful, playful, and festive and many other qualities that come with being a good woman. :)

I would love to share and volunteer our time and talents together to help leave this world a better place then when we got here. To support each others passions. Life is too short and too precious to not make the best of it.

Thank you for your time! Xox Ciao a bello!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I still work, and unless I win the lottery, will probably do so for another 3-4 yrs. My 2 daughters are grown and married to awesome men. My 34 year old is military (she just got out of the Navy and her hubby is 82nd Airborne Army) And I love being a grandma to my 4 grandchildren. My 26 year old is also married to an awesome man, works for the State, and has a serious passion for women caught in the ugly nasty world of sex trafficking.

I do a lot of volunteering and have a heart for the homeless and battered women. I also sponsor women in recovery. I work in the Drug and Alcohol field and this is my passion, to help others out of the pit of despair, and find hope, forgivenss and peace~ and get back some of what the locusts have eaten away of their lives.

I am very active, And love walking, riding my bike, fishing, going to movies, sporting events, and concerts. I am not sure why everyone loves camping so much! Granted, I LOVE the outdoors and nature... absolutely. Love getting muddy and gritty and grubby too! But if I had to be really honest, my tent is gathering dust in the hall closet and I would be just as happy to spend the day outdoors, and come back to a nice motel room, with room service, clean sheets, a fire, a seafood dinner, chocolate dipped strawberries and a bath for two... Oh... it's camping...just for us over 50 folk! Play smarter, not harder! lol

I also love going out to eat or making dinners at home, baking, arts and crafts, gardening (growing own herbs) etc...
I am one of "those" who decorate the house for every season and holiday. I love to swim, BBQ, get together with family and friends and don't mind meeting someone new. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a mom (although my 2 girls are grown and married), a grandma, and being a good friend when you need one. :) Along with those hugs, I give awesome backrubs and like to sing, too. Music is a big part of my life. It heals the soul. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my eyes, compassion, and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love comedy, romance, sci-fi and fantasy (LOTR fan) and action films. I love ALL kinds of music, from classic rock to country to jazz to hip hop to opera. I am not a huge television watcher, but I do like the History Channel, Nova, cooking shows, Biggest Loser Show, Criminal Minds, The Big Bang Theory, Person of Interest, and Downton Abbey. :) (well, I guess I DO watch TV, don't I?) LOL! I love to snuggle up in the couch or by the fireplace and watch an old movie in my big fluffy socks... or ...something sexier....when the mood strikes us. ;-) (it strikes me a LOT!)

Food? That is the "F" word .... trying SO hard to have a healthy relationship with it. Lost 70 pounds. Got 30 more to go... (that is also my "private thing" that is a secret about myself... ) shhhhh... but i will always indulge in a great glass of my favorite cab.... yum!

But I love to cook and am a huge fan of Italian, Asian, Mediteranian, ALL Seafood, Sushi and American cuisine. However, salads, fruits and veggies are kinda my BFFs these days...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 My faith
2 Forgiveness and Hope
3 My friends and family
4 Laughter AND Fun
5 Good food, good wine and a good book or movie
6 Soap...and smell goods

Seriously?? I'm a girl... I cannot just pick and pack 6 items! :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Finishing the race we started doesn't matter...don't mind coming in last... just want to hear "well done" and be a mess and spent and happy and wore the hell out!! :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night should always be date night! When I have one, I am at happy hour, then whatever, or a concert or at the movies, having coffee with a friend, or watching a red box movie at home and if home, i try to get the laundry /housework done so I have all weekend to play. . :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Jesus is my BFF. If you can handle that, then we are golden!. :) oh... and I love Disney...and flowers for no apparent reason... and I am still kinda afraid of the dark... Ok, my new friend... that is enough ...for now! :)
You should message me if
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You are authentic in your profile.
If you are really (honestly) ready to date.
You really are drama, debt and drug free.
You are SINGLE! Seriously! Seems obvious for a dating site, but so many cheaters out there! sheesh!
Have fun, be safe, and be Blessed!
Stay sane - stay safe! Good Luck to you!