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Philly2VAB

40 / M / straight / Available

Cherry Hill, New Jersey

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Intelligent, energetic, and witty.

My Self-Summary

Nice guy that likes to enjoy the simple things in life. Self proclaimed computer geek with a naughty streak. I have been part of the Swingers Lifestyle for over 12 years and I am in a fairly open relationship. My wife is also part of the lifestyle however she has been taking a break for the last few years and may not be getting back into being a Swinger. Together we still host Couples Style Swing Hotel Parties.

I see myself as being evolved beyond just being a Swinger and have interests in the Tantric Arts, Nudist beaches and some curiosity into the Poly lifestyle.

If you would like to know more just ask :-)

What I’m doing with my life

I am a Father, Husband and loyal employee.

I am the Father of 3 wonderful children, 1 who lives with me all the time and 2 others that live with their Mother. Being a Dad of a 5 year old little girl keeps me on my toes and quite busy. I have my 12 year old Son and 14 year old Daughter with me every other weekend which does set the restrictions as to when I can get out and have fun.

My Wife has drifted away from the lifestyle but we are still very much in love with each other. Recently she has decided to help me with hosting my SLS and Yahoo Groups ... South Jersey Adult Parties. My wife allows me to go out and meet other people just so long as I take care of my family obligations at home.

I work from home so I have been lucky enough to mix business with pleasure. My work schedule is flexible which allows me to get out during the day when I don't have meetings.

I’m really good at

Talking and helping people with their problems.
Fixing computers.
Doing my own laundry ... LOL
Talk to me face to face to learn about my other skills ... LOL

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes or my smile .... its a toss up

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books
Anything by Piers Anthony, Timothy Zahn, Tom Clancy or Stephen Hawking.
I love Sci-Fi / Fantasy, Fiction, Historical Fiction, Non-Fiction history stuff.

Movies
Star Wars, Star Trek, Independence Day, Matrix, Transformers, Highlander, Total Recall, Wedding Crashers, Old School, History of the World - Part 1, Blazing Saddles, Caddyshack and many others from my 1000+ DVD collection. And before you ask ... yes I bought them all ... I don't burn DVDs.

TV
Dr. Who, Torchwood, Being Human, Primeval, Heroes, Fringe, NCIS, NCIS: LA, Dexter, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Big Love, Tudors, Crash, Californication, Bored to Death, Secret Diary of a Call Girl, United States of Tara, Damages, Deadliest Catch, Sanctuary, Psych, Burn Notice, Knight Rider, Criminal Minds, Hell's Kitchen, Damages, House, The Mentalist, Bones, South Park and How the Earth Was Made.
Since I have kids ... Star Wars: The Clone Wars, Phineas and Ferb, Wizards of Waverly Place, Imagination Movers, Suite Life on Deck and Hannah Montana

Music
Billy Joel, Genesis, Led Zeppelin, Asia, Journey, Huey Lewis .... the list goes on ...

Food
Sea Food ... I love crabs, fish, shrimp, mussels, calamari ... heck almost anything that comes from the sea.

The six things I could never do without

Family
Tivo
Laptop
Microwave
Hugs & Kisses
Phillies winning the World Series

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Solving problems
Getting in trouble ... :-D

On a typical Friday night I am

Picking up my kids for the weekend or making arrangements for a party.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmmm .... do we have a right not to self incriminate ourselves??? Yea ... that is one of our Constitutional Rights ... so I Plead the 5th

You should message me if

You want to talk to a guy that knows how to connect with people.