I am not high maintenance and definitely do not want a man that is. GTL men that take more time to get ready than me and "Jersey Shore Guidos" need not apply! It is a major turn off when men wear heavily printed shirts (like Ed Hardy, etc...) and are flexing their muscles in front of an expensive car. If you are half naked in your pics it kills the suspense for me. I like suspense, so if you don't leave me much to explore it takes the fun out of meeting you. I am a social butterfly and love to go out, but I would be perfectly content with hanging in and watching a movie.
Throughout my life I have always been a very motivated and goal oriented woman who knows what she wants and will work very hard to get it. There is nothing sexier than a man who is independent, hard working, intelligent, who has a great personality, smile and takes care of himself physically. I don't need to be wined and dined (although it is fun once in awhile), but I am the type of woman who needs to feel good verbally and physically. My personality is very outgoing, flirty and I am far from shy. I need a man that is confident in himself and who will not be intimidated by my outgoing personality. I love to laugh and can be very sarcastic at times, so I need a man that doesn't take everything so seriously and can make me laugh. My heart is huge and I know that if I am treated right my man in return will be treated even better. I am a very honest person and tend to speak my mind, which means I need a man that is upfront, honest and doesn't beat around the bush.
I have to be honest, I have never really been attracted to men under 5' 8," but I am not saying I won't date someone who is 5' 8" or under. This may sound snotty, but if you don't know that "a lot" is NOT one word, it's two, it is a major pet peeve of mine (I'm a reading teacher), and when I read a message and it's spelled incorrectly I am so turned off! Being spontaneous and doing things that are new and exciting keeps my life fun! If you are actively in the military, I'm not interested. I've been a military girlfriend twice and it's not a mental chess game I wish to deal with ever again.
PLEASE DON'T SEND ME NAKED PICTURES OF YOURSELF...WHAT'S THE FUN IF I'VE SEEN EVERYTHING??? ALSO, I'M NOT LOOKING FOR AN INTIMATE ENCOUNTER!!! PLEASE DON'T BOTHER ME IF THAT'S ALL YOU WANT!!! I'm at the age where I'm over dealing with the lying and cheating game, so if you can't control your temptations please don't message me. If you smoke or don't have a picture or your pictures look like mugshots...it's a deal breaker:(