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Phillygrover

41 / M / bisexual / Single

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am responsible, socially conscious, and down-to-earth.

My Self-Summary

Living in Center City, commuting several times a week out to the western burbs. These are a few of my favorite things: my dog, NPR, Trader Joe's, motorcycles, coffee, sunny days, beaches, meals with friends, urban scenes, exercising, languages and cultures, body art/tattoos, teaching, acting classes, screen plays

What I’m doing with my life

...breaking free, renovating my bathroom, walking a spiritual path, and looking forward to a midlife crisis, not necessarily in that order.

I’m really good at

The first things people usually notice about me

You tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I still reach for many of the books I read growing up when I need to get grounded -- e.g., Madeleine L'Engle, C.S. Lewis, E.L. Konigsburg, Cynthia Voigt. I just read His Dark Materials and enjoyed the series. I really like coming of age narratives. Other favorites: She's Come Undone, Secret Life of Bees, Catcher in the Rye, The Color Purple, Dreaming in Cuban.

Movies: Red, Another Woman, Interiors, Match Point, Crimes and Misdemeanors, Fargo, All About My Mother

Music: Thomas Newman, Vanessa Carlton, Wicked, Godspell, Rent, Alanis Morisette, Matchbox Twenty, Goo Goo Dolls, Fuel, Avril Lavigne, Soundtracks

Foods: Thai, Northern Italian (jus' like mom used to make)

The six things I could never do without

1. My Dog
2. Nice days
3. Summer breaks
4. Good books
5. Recovery
6. NPR

On a typical Friday night I am

relaxing with my dog while watching Flip That House, out, or talking on the phone.

You should message me if

you're an NPR junky, can stand going without a shave for a few days, prefer politics to football, and/or have an open mind.