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39 Des Moines, IA Man


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  • Ages 18–45
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Last Online
Jan 18
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Latin (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Over the years, in this space, I've written Vonnegut stream of consciousness, T.S.Elliot poetry, word searches, and several other overly clever but ultimately trying to earnestly prose. Probably should hyphenate that. So here's edit 10. I'm too shy, too nice, and too clever. I'm interested in too many subjects. Whatever. I spend my time turning entertainment productions into silk purses.

I am introspecitve, inquisitive, and intelligent
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work, work, and more work. I'm freelance production and now also the TD of a theater. I do lighting, sound, carp, rigging. If I can get my shit together, maybe even the owner of a local venue.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at most things. It really is just an attention issue. And an overabundance of some neuro-transmitters.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Good question. I'll ask someone sometime.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a) Books... er how about authors? Roger Zelazny [Lord of Light, Creatures of Light and Darkness, Doorways in the Sand, Jack of Shadows] Orson Scott Card [Ender's Game, Speaker for the Dead, Hart's Hope, A Planet Called Treason] Ursula K. LeGuin [The Left Hand of Darkness, The Dispossessed, The Beginning Place, Earthsea] Anne McCaffrey [The Ship Who Sang, Crystal Singer] Jack L. Chalker, Robert Asprin, Dave Duncan, L.E. Modesett Jr., Arthur C. Clarke, Philip Jose Farmer, Larry Niven

b) Movies - Dark City, Bladerunner, Brazil, The Quiet Man, Am�lie, City of Lost Children, The Professional, The Thomas Crown Affair, Better Off Dead, Grosse Pointe Blank, Dr. Strangelove

b.1) Bad Movies - Jesus Christ Vampire Hunter, Restless Souls, They Live, Cannibal Women of the Avocado Jungle of Death

c) Music - Peter Gabriel, Weird Al, Jimi Hendrix, DeFranco, Morriset, etc.)

d) Food - Food that tastes good and takes time, no fast food please.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
How about five. Neurotransmitters, challenges, real beer, books, inner peace. At least I can buy beer and books. And shoot some challenges. Now i just need to find a jug of neurotransmitters and inner peace.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything, (It's like David Lynch, Kevin Smith, Carl Sagan, and Leonardo DaVinci are taking turns with monologues in my head. Jon Stewart moderating.)...Now adding the Marque de Sade and Rasputin. 3 on 3... FIGHT!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working a performance; be it rock'n'roll, theater, corporate, ballet, political, etc.
You should message me if
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You are prepared to enter Kitchen Stadium.

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