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Phnxgirl

23 / F / straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay)

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I am a bit shy, chatty, and into having fun.

My Self-Summary

I'm Alyssa. I'm 23 and to be honest, I work a lot, but it keeps my daytimes occupied. I still make time for fun.

I really enjoy hanging out with people and just having a good time. Watching movies, going for drinks, catching a show... I pretty much enjoy being with others in whatever way makes them happy.

I can be a bit sarcastic at times, but it's all in good fun!

I need to find some new friends around here, cuz all of mine have left me! I'm a lonely girl! :-p So chat me up if you just wanna hang out and have some fun!

What I’m doing with my life

Working, as I said. I would eventually like to move to New York City and work within the theatre/arts industry in some way. That's my dream goal. But for now, baby steps, working on saving money to afford LIVING in NYC. So, saving money is a big thing right now, but I'm also just working on having some fun in life.

I’m really good at

listening to people. I'm always willing to lend an ear, no matter what the problem. I will probably make suggestions and whatnot, no pressure to follow said advice, but it may emerge anyway.

The first things people usually notice about me

I really don't know. Hmmm. Tell me?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: well, I work at Borders and sadly, don't get to read enough. I just finished the Twilight series (and liked it... sue me... haha). Mostly I read whatever is popular at the current moment, that is when I have time when I'm not doing school work.

Movies: I'll admit, I have some odd tastes, and have love for some movies that others won't touch. On the list of faves: Saved, South Park: Bigger, Longer, Uncut, Dazed and Confused, First Wives Club, Get Over It, Bring it On, Breakfast Club, Wedding Crashers, 10 Things I Hate About You, American Outlaws, Monty Python's Meaning of Life, Ocean's 11, etc, etc. I don't see new movies all that much, but I'm always willing to see more.

Music: I don't like to discriminate on music. I will listen to everything. It really goes on a song-by-song basis. I am a choir nerd, so that's on my list too, as well as some show tunes, but if you're not into either, I won't bombard you with them. haha.

Food: Anything that tastes good. I'm up for trying anything.

The six things I could never do without

My family, friends, music, the arts, work, money (sadly...).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

where my life is headed. I'm rather concerned about how I'm going to get in the direction I'd like to be in. It overwhelms me sometimes, but I'm trying to get through it. I'm usually also thinking about those closest to me, and ways to make them happy.

On a typical Friday night I am

Looking for a way to relax, usually with friends, just doing something laid back and fun.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My first concert was the Spice girls. And the private part is that I'm not ashamed of it either! :-p

You should message me if

you want to go out and grab a beer! I don't get to do that often enough.