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Pho-merican

39 M Santa Clara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:51am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
It seems like the trend on here is that people would rather be weird than normal. First of all, this is subjective based on the immediate populace and personal experience. Second, I would rather be normal...by my standards. Everyone's are different but I want a dog and a logical thought path.
I'm good at planning but I don't like doing it. Life is more fun when lived moment to moment.
I grew up in a very small town in MT but I am not a simpleton. I spent 8 years in the Marines and I hold several patents. If you wrote that you require someone to have a degree then I'm not interested in talking to you. However, if you went to Stanford, UC Davis or SCU I'm already a bit attracted to you...LOL my own personal stereotype, sorry. I don't believe that holding a degree dictates who you are or how we might get along. I've know people with PhD behind their names that make me want to back my car over them...twice. One of my best friends and mentors in OR was a PhD. I've known people on both sides of a degree that are dumber than a bag of hammers. This leads to another point...common sense. It can be taught but at a young age. If you are a parent and you are not teaching your children to think before speaking/acting...you are wrong. For people that don't have it, I absolutely blame their parents. If you have enough common sense to buy a vowel we'll probably get along just fine. Beware, Bragging ahead: I have both intellect and common sense. I believe in working on my own car and am capable of doing it but I have the sense to know when I'm out of my depth. Though I have been known to have the occasional brain fart I know enough to start a fire before it gets cold and I can also explain the chemical reaction that occurs during fire. If we have a conversation and you get lost I'm not the type to make you feel stupid. I understand that we all have had different paths in life and what you have been exposed to I may have not been and visa versa. I won't hold it against you, please return the favor, I am trainable and will make an effort especially if I see it matters to you! What I will hold against you is if you don't understand something and instead of trying, you dismiss it as stupid...effort goes a long way. This brings me to another point. The golden rule is there for a reason. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Now I understand that we are all human and we can go off sometimes but that just enforces the need for this even more. Treat others with the dignity, courtesy and respect that you would expect to receive and people respond to that. Even if they don't, it doesn't give you the right to be an ass back...they're behavior is on them, don't take it on yourself by being retaliatory. On the flip side, if you are a princess and want to be the center of attention then I'm just going to assume you are looking forward to treating your man like a prince and focusing equally on him. Being in a relationship is like being a plant. A plant gives us oxygen, shade, beauty, nutrition...etc...it takes water, nutrients and CO2 for a plant to be healthy. There is equal give and take. You may not be able to give what you take but you give what you have and take what you need. You can't expect to be all take and you shouldn't be all give. A relationship is not 50-50 it's 100-100. If you want to be there you want to be in it, not half way in it or be with someone that's only half way in it for you. I also don't think that everyday in a relationship is all sunshine and rosebuds. Somedays will suck. Those are the days that the 100% dedication come into play. If you are in a long term relationship with someone a day will come when you piss each other off. If you want to be together then instead of letting the pissed off feeling form a valley between you, you build a bridge and get over it!
I believe in love...not just in the romantic sense but in the sense that it's an energy that we can surround ourselves in and pass on to others. I also believe that it's unlimited. If love was a pocketfull of never ending quarters, you can give out quarters to everyone you know and still have a pocketfull of quarters. So you shouldn't be shy with it because you can never run out of it and everyone could use a bit more.
Of course these are all things I believe and try to take to heart and practice and teach my kids to practice and embrace but being human I often fall short.
One thing you'll see me loose my mind over is bad driving...sorry in advance, I'm not proud of it! BUT if someone stops in a merge lane and traffic is going fast I will loose my shit! They are going to cause a crash! What is even the train of thought there? How are they going to merge with moving traffic when they are stopped?!
I know this is a novel and I've probably excluded 98% of the women on here but it's not like my inbox was exploding anyway.
For those of you left, I hope you enjoyed my novel. I'm targeting a release date of early spring. LOL
What I’m doing with my life
What it takes and a bit more.
I’m really good at
I programmed my phone to control my TV and then used it for the next half hour to convince my kids that they were controlling it with their minds...hours of entertainment! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
The "W" I have tattooed on each butt cheek...when I do a cart wheel it says "WoW MoM"...
The six things I could never do without
I don't think there are 6 things...
1) My kids...I would die without them. If you're not a parent you probably don't understand. I didn't before I had my kids and my single friends are clueless.
I honestly can't think of anything else I wouldn't be able to adapt to not having. There are things that would suck but life is change, I'd survive.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Yeah I'm not big on admitting private stuff...it's probably in the vault for a reason...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'd rather not spend a lot of time messaging back and forth... The first time we meet is a much better guage of whether there's a connection or not. The way I see it, if we met at the beach or library or the bank (for any Cake fans...LOL) we would be meeting immediately and THEN talking over the phone or texting...this is backwards from the way it should be. I apologize if it seems like I'm asking too soon but I'd much rather meet in person. Oh and please look like your pictures...I look like mine...what's the point of posting them if they don't look like you? ;-)