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41 M Ballwin, MO

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:57am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm available now!... No, really! I am! Is this thing on? Mad genius jack of all trades. Have 2 young boys who are amazing and who I just can't stop hugging and kissing. I am so proud of them - one is a total nerd and the other is a cuddle-monster. Couldn't be happier with those guys. Looking for someone who is a good person and can make me better just by being around them.
What I’m doing with my life
Full time photographer. Trying to build my personal business, but have a day-job doing photography. HEY! I got a dog! Woof! Cairn mix rescue from the Humane Society...
I’m really good at
singing... songwriting... photography... cooking... the use of ellipses... I have a dry sense of humor, and I am often greatly torn because I want to spell humor as "humour". It's the British genes, I guess.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sense of humor, my blue eyes, and my smile (thank you dentist).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Back when I had time to read books, I seemed to make a lot of time for it. One of my favorite books of all time is Lila by Robert M. Pirsig. It's sort of the metaphysics of passion. High Fidelity is one of my favorite movies along with Beautiful Girls (the movie). Music, I write music and sing and play lots of instruments. My actual college degree is in music, but I'm not a music teacher so I don't use that much nowadays.
The six things I could never do without
My boys
A camera
A calculator
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting better... at everything.

I woke this morning with this thought. "Romantic love feels like a really great dream I had, but I can't remember what it was about." I don't know... Just felt like there was a truth in there somewhere...
On a typical Friday night I am
Not sure what I will be doing any given Friday. But wanted to say something. I really look forward to the next time somebody massages my shoulders... I can probably count on one hand the number of times anyone has done that for me, and it's really hard for me to relax enough to enjoy it. But right now, it just sounds good for some reason.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really pretty good at typing on a 10-key pad... Oh, the shame.

If you can't relate to that, here's one. I actually kinda like Budweiser beer.... Budweiser... not any other AB product... Generally I'm more of a micro-brew sort of guy, but there is something about regular old Bud...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are religious or truly believe the statement, "Everything happens for a reason.", then you should probably just skip me. Eventually I will say things that you won't be able to deal with.

Also, I hope this doesn't sound shallow... I am 6' tall and weigh around 200 lbs. Unless you are taller than me, if you weigh more than that, probably best if you don't try to connect with me. I try very hard to see people for who they are inside, but i do need to be physically attracted to someone if things are going to progress. I am not in perfect shape, and I don't expect you to be. But if someone were in better shape than me, I would be inspired to improve. I would love to work together with someone to be healthier. I don't want to be with someone who inspires me to be less healthy.