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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–61
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:46pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Has kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have tried to build a career in literature, something of a challenge these days. Opportunities lie waiting in times of change. My glass is always at least half full.

I am in a fabulous relationship with my #1 match on here, NoLongerBlondie, my best friend and lover! We are polyamorous. I totally enjoy making new friends and would love hear from you! I'm always up for a drink and a discussion on literature, photography, my poly experience, and solving the world's problems. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Answering phones for a local credit card company. Glad to have a job!

Looking forward to getting out to do some photoshoots. Yeehah!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography. I have always had an interest in it, and have rekindled my passion for it almost two years ago. I have a FB page, just ask.

I love to cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes I am told. Charm? Silliness?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love English authors. I went on a tear through Graham Greene and Evelyn Waugh years ago. Ian McKewan's Atonement rocked. Any Human Heart by Wm. Boyd was just produced as a miniseries on Masterpiece Theatre, and I thought the writing was fantastic. The Passage, The Twelve (Cronin), Matterhorn (Vietnam war tale A-mazing, could be autobiographical of Karl Marlantes's tour of duty.)...The Night Circus, Lolita, Gone Girl...Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter. Love to mix it up.
Movies....I loved American Hustle. Haven't been out much lately. TV is more on the radar for me, my new all time fave, Breaking Bad, Castle, Once Upon a Time, Mad Men, Big Love, Weeds, Dexter, and It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

Music: Jazz, blues, alt country, some pop, the right pop...( I do enjoy Lady Gaga), folk, rock, classical, ska, reggae. I pretty much like it all (except new age), even dub step.

Food. What I like (everything, depending on mood), what I dislike: overuse of cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Camera (ideally with computer/photoshop--does this count as two items?)
Dental Floss/match (could subtitute duct tape for dental floss)
See above, 2nd paragraph. #1 match....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, relationships, photography (locationis/scenarios).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home resting up from the past week, and for Saturday night fun.
Let there be pizza & wine! A couch and a TV :p
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me privately.
You should message me if
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if you want to chat about ANYTHING, or if you are up for having a drink or a meal, or...well, you just should!