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PhyllisCares

62 F Woodacre, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 56–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:57am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Seeking another kind soul in Marin, or nearby... I'm an upbeat, happy, active, fun woman. I care about people and animals and the planet. I like going to movies, plays, museums, live music, dancing, the ocean, and other beautiful places. Being in nature makes me happy! I love to travel! I love 60s to 80s music, Beatles to Bowie and much in between (Springsteen, Tom Petty, Bob Marley, UB40...). But, I also like classical music and ballet. I last worked for a nonprofit organization that helps make this country better. I enjoy laughing and hearing other people laugh.

I grew up in New York City, moved to California in 1974, living in the L.A. area and the Bay Area twice each, plus a wonderful few years in Bandon, a magical little town in Southern Oregon. I love to travel and have been to many interesting places over the years (much of Europe, Egypt, India).

I try to do one Sudoku puzzle a day, I enjoy crossword puzzles (if I can fill in most of the words), I like to read but don't have much time for it these days. I'm mildly Jewish and a student of Kabbalah.

I enjoy being out in the world! I have no qualms going out alone if I have no one to go with, or if I just want to be quiet. But, it sure would be great to have a fun, intelligent man to share my life with! Is that you?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just moved back to the Bay Area at the beginning of July. Living out in the countryside, and loving it! I like spending time walking in beauty, seeing movies, occasionally going dancing, enjoying live music, but I also enjoy going solo to museums and other interesting places. Collecting unemployment at the moment and appreciating the time off from working. I give my kitty cat lots of lovin' and have more to share!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying life, appreciating the beauty in the world, finding joy in small things, listening, cooking an impromptu meal, laughing, making people feel good, writing, cuddling...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, my eyes... you'll have to tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like GOOD movies in most categories: drama, comedy, sci-fi, fantasy, adventure, I really like animated films, and 3-D. Same can be said about books (including 3-D, as I love pop-up books!). My favorite magazine is called "The Intelligent Optimist" and I've been getting "Games" since it started. I don't watch much TV consistently, but I tend to watch BBC America (Dr. Who, Graham Norton), SyFy, movies, Castle, Face Off, cooking shows... And food, I like GOOD and spicy food of almost every ethnicity; I'm not a fast food fan unless pizza counts. Music, mostly 60s to 80s, Beatles to Bowie?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music! Music makes me happy!
Friends! I have just a few good friends, but they are long-term relationships.
Chocolate, preferably dark.
Excellent meals.
Contributing to causes I believe in.
At the moment, the unconditional love and affection of my cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the state of our nation and the world. How blessed I am, in comparison to most of my friends, and a lot of the world. Eating appropriately and exercising -- or not! -- to reach a weight that makes me happier and healthier. On a more mundane level, how I want to spend my free time to enjoy life!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's really no typical at the moment. I'm enjoying spending time with my sister, and my new housemates.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I really enjoy sex, but I'm looking for more than 'just' that. I guess that's not a big thing to admit... why else would I be on this dating site?!?!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live in Northern California, you're a compassionate person, relatively happy, like to go out and do things (and can afford to), and have moderate to left politics. You have some spiritual beliefs, or at least acceptance is a plus. And hopefully, you're not allergic to -- and actually like -- cats. I just have one.