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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Under construction so ask if I don't have the info you want yet. I am in a poly relationship. I love my girlfriend and her husband and child. I consider myself part of their family and want to keep it that way, but am looking for my family to grow. More soon.....:)
What I’m doing with my life
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Basically reinventing myself right now. Considering going back to school for nutritional healing, Buddhism, biology or to help me be a better writer. Basically trying to break away from the society set parameters spoon fed to me since birth to find my meaning in life! I am always looking for more people to enjoy life with. I am looking into volunteer work abroad.
I’m really good at
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Compassion and understanding. Helping people to smile. Cooking, pool, fixing things. Noticing important details.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My red hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I will read just about anything. Reading astronomy text book right now in addition to sidhartha and a storm of swords. I am not a fan of violence in movies or tv. Not a huge fan of tv really. Don't watch much that's current. I like x-files, any Star Trek, Cheers, any show that displays the average joes talent. Always a fan of trying new things! I love food and cooking! Worked as a chef and studied culinary arts a little. Was a vegetarian for a few years when I was younger and considering doing it again soon. Nutrition is the key to health!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, family, nature, understanding, humor and happiness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personal growth and trying to do the right thing. Expanding my point of view and helping others. Being happy and compassionate :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying life in whatever way I can. But I guess for the sake of the questions purpose....I enjoy most things one can do out(symphony,comedy,pool). But also love a walk on the beach or looking at the stars. And I would never be opposed to a good movie on the couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am usually shy in the beginning and I have a hard time making first contact. But once you get to know me a little I am very outgoing.
You should message me if
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If you like what you see and want to know more. I am very open and honest so ask me anything :)