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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:12am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey visitor!
I love stepping into many different worlds. And I love building bridges between them, bring along some people in the process and share the experience!

I seek connection.
To me, it means being present, willing to see and be seen, in the places we feel proud and competent but also those where we feel shameful or undeserving.

I can sometimes become serious and heavy (and boring!). Call me out then!
Because let's face it. Most of the time, I'm having a lot of fun and I will communicate it.
(And I'm really funny.)
(I am. Don't piss me off now. <3)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I used to be a scientific research, working as an academic in a field called Machine Learning (applied maths, computer science).
This is no more!

I'm now working as a personal coach, and trainer of a wellness practice called Orgasmic Meditation.
It's a partnered practice that cultivates connection between partners and awareness of involuntary body reactions and sensations.
And it's fucking awesome! Ask me about it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Socially adapting. I can be good bridge between different worlds. Academic, meditation, spirituality, geek, nerd, musician... I just love bridging!

Intellectual stuff. For long, I pretty much only used my head for anything in my life. I can be good with it. Now catching up emotionally, spiritually, physically. And I'm doing good!

Conversations. I'm really curious. If you are enthusiastic about what you are talking about, we'll probably have a great time!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually people notice that I look younger than I actually am.
My nose, which is quite big and sometimes lead some people to comparing me to a bird.
My eyes, with their changing grey/blue color.
My low-pitched deep voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite authors are London, (Haruki) Murakami, Carver, Camus, Vian. I love sci-fi too, Herbert, Asimov, Le Guin, Zelazny. Some theater with Beckett, Jarry, poetry with Aragon, Breton...

I love Kubrick, all of it, Coen brothers, Wes Anderson (but I'm afraid I'm starting getting a bit full of it).
I love some Dead Man, Ghost Dog by Jarmusch.
I'm picky with comedies but LOVE Some Like it Hot, Pranzo di Ferragosto.
Some movies that moved me most those last few years are Tokyo Sonata, Her, Under the Skin, Two Lovers. God I loved those!

I've seen a LOT.
I'd say my favorite are Twin Peaks, Riget, House of Cards, The SHIELD, Six Feet Under.
I am very fond of The Leftovers. I cried my eyes out in the finale. Still don't exactly know why. It's so good.

I listen to a lot of different things.
I love early 20th western classical, Janacek, Bartok, Debussy, Satie...
I love Indian classical, especially hindustani. Raag Purya Danashree <3
I love jazz, various stuff, Coltrane, Mahavishnu Orchestra, Zappa, EST, Tigran Hamasyan, Marc Ribot...
I love somewhat angry electro, Venetian Snares <3, Crystal Castles...
I also get into more minimalistic stuff, Jeff Mills, Basic Channel...
I love hip-hop and rap, Wu-Tang, Deltron3030, Dizzee Rascal, Oxmo Puccino, Danny Brown...
I love Balinese gamelan and Kecak.
I love Neon Golden by The Notwist <3
I love a LOT of stuff. I am into music.
Oh and I do some mongolian throat singing

I don't cook much. I want to push myself on that!
I'm very much into food though.
I love Vietnamese and Thai food. Mexican food can be really neat. Too bad it's usually really bad and/or expensive here.
Lately, I've been off added sugar. Fruits and Honey are ok. It's all new to me. It feels good so far!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intimate connection (which doesn't mean sex, though it can be).
Creative people around to feed me!
Allies to love, share, and grow with.
A body. I long had forgotten about that.
Novelty, new activities, works, ideas, experiences.
Suggest me a fifth. I'd love to read your ideas or suggestions!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of things. I tend to overthink.
I'm working on letting go of it though.
Anyway, these days, I've been thinking a lot about the power of vulnerability and surrendering.
I think a lot about addictions and spirituality.
I think a lot about how I relate to others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have a routine.
In my new life, there's not so much of a difference between week days and weekends.
So Friday night isn't really anything special to me.
I love going to the movies.
Oh and I fucking LOVE korean spas. Too bad there isn't any in France apparently.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have co-dependent traits. More specifically, I am somewhat emotionally anorexic.
In practice it means I tend to chase women that are not really available for me, while I tend to push away women that are.
It sometimes sucks for me to see it. But honestly, I just want to handle my shit and work on it. And it's pretty awesome to be in that spot!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm mainly looking for allies, whether lovers, friends, co-workers or whatever the label.
So you should definitely message me if you feel we could grow together.
I want to connect with people that are willing to explore their shadows, navigate around and through them, and that are willing to have fun in the process!