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29 Paris, France Man


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  • Ages 20–40
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:39am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Okay), French (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's just say that I love exploring new things.
I'm as optimistic as it gets and most of the time, I find a way to benefit from any experience, even failures. I think that really is my nature, but I find it pretty convenient as I almost never feel sorry for myself or have regrets.
Anyway, I love sharing with others. I guess that's why I came on such a website !

By the way, I'm just happy with my life right now, spending time doing things I enjoy. I'm not thinking that much about the future because I'm not worried. It will just be as good as it is now.

Trop de flemme pour le résumé en français.
Tout le monde comprend au moins 12 langues dont l'anglais, sur okcupid, non ?

I am curious, lucky, and watchful
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Old, but still relevant:

I'm back to studies this year, having a master degree in sciences applied to music, which means mainly acoustic, signal processing and computer sciences but also perception, psycho-acoustic, cognitive sciences, sociology, musicology... all those applied to music. I find it quite difficult but really fascinating too !
Last year, I spent a few months working and a few more travelling, especially in India (for like 3 months and a half). Great experience. It's still a little early to say that but it definitely changed me a lot. Discovering a new culture with a totally different background, with totally different "values" will obviously make you change. Among many other things, discovering indian classical music (which I didn't know at all) was a real shock for me. I'm eager to get back there.


Update :
I've now graduated and just moved to Marseille to start a PhD programme, dealing mainly with computer sciences (machine learning for those who may know that). I already enjoy Marseille a lot though I basically know no one there (so far...).


New update :
I've been in Marseille for two years and a half now. My PhD is probably reaching its end in a foreseeable future. It's just getting better and better. But I'll leave for some other place, then. Maybe in another country. It's still a little confused, but it's making more and more sense.


Newer update :
I'm done with the PhD. Time for some post-doc now. I'm finally staying in France for a couple more years at least, and I'm moving to Rennes! Feel free to contact me if you want to show me around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not being tricked by anger and thus shrugging it off.
Enjoying almost everything, though.
Raising a big deal of interest about what you will tell me.
Adapting, I think, because I love it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually people notice that I look younger than I actually am.
It used to irritate me a little, not so much any more.
My nose, which is quite big and sometimes lead some people to comparing me with a bird.
My eyes, with their changing grey/blue color.
My low-pitched voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really loved reading "The Iron Heel" and "To build a fire" (and other short stories) (Jack London). I also love "L'étranger" and "La chute" (Albert Camus). There is a lot of books I loved and it's always difficult for me to pick up my "favorite". I could maybe mention "The Naked Lunch" by William S. Burroughs, "En attendant Godot" (Samuel Beckett). "Le Roman Inachevé" (Louis Aragon) moved me a lot, as well as some works by André Breton. Lately, I discovered Raymond Carver and Haruki Murakami. Just amazing.

With movies it will become even more difficult. I'd say most of Kubrick's movies (especially Dr. Strangelove and Barry Lindon), Some like it Hot (Billy Wilder), M (Fritz Lang), La question humaine (Nicolas Klotz), maybe Fargo (Coen bros.), I do appreciate Jim Jarmusch a lot too (Dead Man, Ghost Dog, Broken Flowers...)... Probably many more. More recently, I could see Two Lovers and Tokyo Sonata which are definitely among my favourite ones.

Music... Ok, now it's impossible. I do love music. Usually I like unexpected, surprising music. From indian classical to the most confusing noisy breakcore (ah Venetian Snares...). I'm really not into a unique "genre". Not because I like everything, not at all. Because I'm just too curious and sensitive to a wide variety.
However I guess I should say I love John Coltrane, Dave Holland, Stevie Wonder (not everything though), Dick Annegarn, Antipop Consortium, Wu-Tang Clan, Rocé, Deerhoof, Bélà Bartok, Leos Janaçek, Bade Ghulam Ali Khan, Bismillah Khan, Ahmed Jan Thirakwa, Jean-Louis Matinier. Tuvan, javanase, balinese, pygmee traditional musics.
UPDATE: I haven't discovered so many new things, recently. Come and help me with that!

One last for TV shows. I've watched too much of them. But I'll just keep a few for here. Six Feet Under, Riget (The Kingdom), Twin Peaks, The Shield, these are the top favorite. I guess I could add The Wire, Oz, Party Down, Flight of the Conchords, Dead Set and why not Babylon 5 (quite a long time ago, though).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being serious when it's not required or expected.
Not being serious almost any other time.
Being 3 minutes late.
Trying to be funny.
Internet (crap...but it's not so true)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next trip. Wasting time. Procrastinating.
Machine Learning, Optimization. I can be a huge geek.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I actually don't have typical friday nights.
Going to a concert ? Working when I have to ? Getting drunk at a party (it tends to happen less and less often, though) ? Doing absolutely nothing at mine ?
Maybe you tell me what I'm doing next friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For now, I tend to be really not so secret.
Doesn't mean I'm so much versed in exhibitionism, though.
Come and see.
You should message me if
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You should nothing.
You can just message me if you wanna chat for a while, especially if something in my profile kept your attention !

After two amazing trips (to India and Mexico), I already can't wait to have another one. It will take place in Tuva mainly and probably more of the southern siberian part of Russia as well as Mongolia. If you've ever been there or know a little about these places, please message me !