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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:04am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Likes dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Somehow, the idea of a summary seems pretty daunting. And I'm a believer that you have to meet and talk to the person. But here's a few things. I try to be at least a little bit different. I like thinking about the way things look. Family is very important to me. Cooking is something I enjoy, even if the results are mixed. So is running. And basketball. And writing. I do my best to stay up on the latest music and literature. I listen to podcasts and audiobooks when I'm walking to work and driving in the car, and sometimes when I'm running. I love traveling, and I've taken some great trips. But it would be amazing to get to India, Iceland, Turkey, Egypt, and somewhere in southern Africa.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hopefully, working on being a good person, trying to be relevant, trying to make a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing profiles. buying books and music and electronic gadgets. Listening to music. Road trips.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair. my shoes. my glasses, when I wear them. Is it possible to first notice three things?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Disgrace, Freedom, White Noise, Remainder, Atonement, Things We Didn't See Coming.
Traffic, Deer Hunter, The Godfather, Trust or Simple Men, Pan's Labyrinth, Until the End of the World.
Mad Men, The Wire, Lost, The Killing.
Aimee Mann. Lilly Allen. Radiohead. Leonard Cohen. Lykke Li.
Avec, Girl and the Goat, Bistro Campagne. Beets. garbanzos. quinoa.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Most of the things that are important to me relate to people? Or maybe they don't count, I guess they aren't things. I like to think I could do without most things. Other than those books and music and podcasts and electronic gadgets. and maybe live music? Although I seem to be doing without that lately.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what came before, what comes next. The perfect paint color. Whether a period should be followed by one space or two.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner with friends. Or not.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I spend a lot of time thinking about what came before and what comes next.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're intellectually curious. A good talker. Funny, clever. A good person.