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48 M Olema, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:08am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Norwegian (Okay)

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My self-summary
(OBS my Ap makes it look like I am always on this site even when not. If I had just visited your profile and then left; it looks like I'm staring at you lol. Finally, my seeming obsession with running is being temporarily modified…just had my knee done and have swapped out swimming for the pounding of running)
Despite all that, I am exhilarated to be alive!!

Let's go running or meet at the beach or grab a glass of wine. It may work out romantically or it may not but at least we will have maybe discovered a new trail, beached or sipped wine with hopefully a cool person! We're adult enough for that right?! Ultimately, I'm looking for somebody I can't resist!

I'd love to plan an adventure near or far. I've been to over 50 countries, manage to get fed in a host of languages but I'm hungry for more!

Sorry about the shirtless pic but a woman friend told me that my pics made me look like "an innocuous skinny white guy", evidently a fate worse than death :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am trying to balance being the best father I can be with career and intellectual pursuits, health, travel and diet. Balance in each category is essential to success in the other categories.
I’m really good at
You could parachute me in to anywhere in the world and I will thrive! Our definitions of thrive may differ but for me it will be very good times. Boy, do I have some stories and I'd love to hear yours.
The first things people usually notice about me
If I'm emerging from around a corner, my nose. Unless I'm naked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If you followed me for a week you might think that I was a raw vegan but I am a de jure omnivore with emphasis on provenance. I couldn't really label my music tastes but I could tell you that on my drive from Sonoma today, Ray LaMontagne, Seu Jorge, Maroon 5, Nando Reis, Rage Against the Machine and Flogging Molly were my Pandora stations. I go by the "If the music is good on volume 6, it will be better on volume 8" motto.

I love Kundera, Tolstoy, Mishima, Hemmingway, Appolinaire, Rilke, GGMarques, Gibran, Geek Love by K. Dunn, José Saramago, Hesse, Patrick Süskind, John Irving, Pat Conroy, Ayn Rand, Dave Eggars, The Russians...just read Netherland by Joseph O'Neil and The Brief Wondrous Life by Junot Diaz.
The six things I could never do without
Working on asceticism...uh...with a smart phone. And a good sleep. Oh, and my kids. And a muse. With a passport. And a bottle of Grand Cru Chablis. Et sex bien sur! ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
What do you propose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will whisper in your ear ;)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are attracted to me.
You smell good.
Want to learn more about me.
You want to hang out and people watch.
Go for a run?
You fancy yourself a commiseratrice.
You want to geek out on wine.
- I have been told that I come off very sexually here (and I am) but I'm not a player; I want to find ONE woman with whom we will reciprocally provide all of our sex.