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49 • Fairfax, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 38–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 20
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Rather not say
- Has kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Norwegian (Okay)
Let's go running or meet at the beach or grab a glass of wine. It may work out romantically or it may not but at least we will have maybe discovered a new trail, beached or sipped wine with hopefully a cool person! Either way we will have that moment. We're adult enough for that right?! Ultimately, I'm looking for somebody I can't resist!
I'd love to plan an adventure near or far. I've been to over 50 countries, manage to get fed in a host of languages but I'm hungry for more!
Sorry about the shirtless pic but a woman friend told me that my pics made me look like "an innocuous skinny white guy", evidently a fate worse than death :)
I love Kundera, Tolstoy, Mishima, Hemmingway, Appolinaire, Rilke, GGMarques, Gibran, Geek Love by K. Dunn, José Saramago, Hesse, Patrick Süskind, John Irving, Pat Conroy, Ayn Rand, Dave Eggars, The Russians...just read Netherland by Joseph O'Neil, The Brief Wondrous Life by Junot Diaz, the latest Murakami and Constellation of Vital Phenomenae. Currently transfixed by Brian Doyle's Mink River. What evocative power that man has.
You smell good.
Want to learn more about me.
You want to hang out and people watch.
Go for a run?
You fancy yourself a commiseratrice.
You want to geek out on wine.
- I have been told that I come off very sexually here (and I am) but I'm not a player; I want to find ONE woman with whom we will reciprocally provide all of our sex.
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