Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(OBS my Ap makes it look like I am always on this site even when
not. If I had just visited your profile and then left; it looks
like I'm staring at you lol. Oh my God! Look at all these ladies;
how exhilarating!! So I have kids and you will have to understand
that…but that can be hot. Conspiratorial plans, crimes of
opportunity, who knows where it will lead…I would rather have
somebody in my life of quality as a muse who I see less frequently
but with abandon than somebody convenient. On the other hand, such
a quality person would become a priority herself. When I meet you,
I hope to feel that I have missed you.
Let's go running or meet at the beach or grab a glass of wine. It
may work out romantically or it may not but at least we will have
maybe discovered a new trail, beached or sipped wine with hopefully
a cool person! Either way we will have that moment. We're adult
enough for that right?! Ultimately, I'm looking for somebody I
I'd love to plan an adventure near or far. I've been to over 50
countries, manage to get fed in a host of languages but I'm hungry
Sorry about the shirtless pic but a woman friend told me that my
pics made me look like "an innocuous skinny white guy", evidently a
fate worse than death :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am trying to balance being the best father I can be with career
and intellectual pursuits, health, travel and diet. Balance in each
category is essential to success in the other categories. Being a
single Dad is enormously gratifying but I'll be honest up front. I
presently spend half the week in Marin and half in the South Bay
with significant time in San Francisco so that may not be for
everybody. Although I didn't plan it out that way, it is actually
ideal in many ways. The woman I date will have to be cool with
this, even turning it into an asset by creating situations where we
really value each other highly. Don't get me wrong, the sky is the
limit as despite the sound of it, I have alot of flexibility.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
You could parachute me in to anywhere in the world and I will
thrive! Our definitions of thrive may differ but for me it will be
very good times. Boy, do I have some stories and I'd love to hear
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm emerging from around a corner, my nose. Unless I'm naked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
If you followed me for a week you might think that I was a raw
vegan but I am a de jure omnivore with emphasis on provenance. I
couldn't really label my music tastes but I could tell you that on
my drive from Sonoma today, James Vincent McMorrow, Ray LaMontagne,
Seu Jorge, Maroon 5, Nando Reis, Rage Against the Machine and
Flogging Molly were my Pandora stations. I go by the "If the music
is good on volume 6, it will be better on volume 8" motto.
I love Kundera, Tolstoy, Mishima, Hemmingway, Appolinaire, Rilke,
GGMarques, Gibran, Geek Love by K. Dunn, José Saramago, Hesse,
Patrick Süskind, John Irving, Pat Conroy, Ayn Rand, Dave Eggars,
The Russians...just read Netherland by Joseph O'Neil, The Brief
Wondrous Life by Junot Diaz, the latest Murakami and Constellation
of Vital Phenomenae. Currently transfixed by Brian Doyle's Mink
River. What evocative power that man has.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Working on asceticism...uh...with a smart phone. And a good sleep.
Oh, and my kids. And a muse. With a passport. And a bottle of Grand
Cru Chablis. Et sex bien sur! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will whisper in your ear ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are attracted to me.
You smell good.
Want to learn more about me.
You want to hang out and people watch.
Go for a run?
You fancy yourself a commiseratrice.
You want to geek out on wine.
- I have been told that I come off very sexually here (and I am)
but I'm not a player; I want to find ONE woman with whom we will
reciprocally provide all of our sex.
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