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44 Alamogordo, NM Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–49
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I love to laugh; LOVE TO LAUGH!! spontaneous but also quiet at times; enjoy an intelligent conversation but also like to goof around (depends on mood and situation) ; I love music (from current Top 40 to Techno, to Mozart), movies, going for walks, people watching.

I don't mind trying to fix things on my own. My curiosity for knowledge never ends. I have a rather dry sense of humor at times and some have a hard time with that and may think that I'm upset. I generally don't get upset too easily and try to keep things on the lighter side.

My perfect match would be someone who is not afraid to be affectionate and romantic, loves to cuddle, kiss, hold hands,....... You need to be driven, be able to communicate as I can't read your mind. Someone who likes to be spontaneous and likes to have fun..... be it going for a walk, a movie, mini golf, arcade, bowling, shooting, zoo, gallery, museum, ....... whatever. Being able to relax and even laugh at each other at times is a must. There's a time to be serious and that's fine but other than that I try to keep things on the lighter side and try to have as much fun as I can. And yes, I like video games , am a total nerd, and I'm not going to change ;) I will wear heels and dress up if the occasion calls for it, otherwise you'll find me in jeans, t-shirt, Chucks or Doc Martens.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a degree in criminal justice but run my own business. My kids are grown and have their own lives
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A little bit of everything......I'm rather a Jack of all trades. I actually like fixing things on my own if at all possible. I'm not the typical average woman lol.........I'm certainly not afraid to get dirty and messy. I'm also not as weak as I may look lol

Other than all of that, I'm pretty much a computer geek, photographer, video gamer......I have too many hobbies lol

I'm a decent darts player and rifle shooter too ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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People usually notice my wild colored hair and that I'm really easy to talk to
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Stephen King - The Dark Tower series, Bag of Bones, The Talisman, Thinner, The Stand, Riding The Bullet, Dragon Eyes

In the Now
Scientific American
Psychology Today
All of V.C. Andrews
John Saul
Harry Potter (all 7)

Most movies but no horror
Faves include:
The Lord of the Rings trilogy
The Matrix
Marvel movies!!
IP Man (loved the action)
I LOVE action movies and comedy the most

Sushi especially California roll
My fav places to eat would be Olive Garden, Japanese Steakhouse, and Applebees
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Socks.....I LOVE SOCKS lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life in general and all of its mysteries

How people no longer value respect and honesty these days and where it has gone.

Why book editors can't find grammatical errors and misspelled words..............most annoying thing is to read a book and find errors :(
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably at home working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm afraid to be alone in the dark
You should message me if
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You've made it to the bottom of all of this and are still interested or curious.......or just want to chat. I don't bite.....well, not hard anyway lol. I'm really easy to talk to ;)

I don't want to be your next booty call either so if that's all you want, please don't waste either of our time