Love really is a complicated thing... attraction, that's the really big issue and I'm beginning to realise that talking of male or female: the gender issue is both divisive and destructive when trying to form relationships. As it stands, I am now realising that we cannot help who we fall in love with - regardless of gender or considered gendered identity.
I really am looking for someone with a similar sense of humour to myself, I'm looking for the someone with a similar mindset - who's willing to be open to their younger selves - who they were as kids, it's important that whoever I fall in love with hasn't lost this. Be yourself, be playful - be fun. Be free... don't let other people's opinions entrap you, don't let the perspective of others influence what you like - or say you like. Be open with yourself, so you can be open with others.
In saying that, certainty is not an easy thing to find - but just try to be positive, try to be honest with how you feel at the time.
All in all, I am me and I look forward to meeting you...