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27 • Great Neck, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–25
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 12
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Has dogs and dislikes cats
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
I'm single, an asian guy, very incapable of describing oneself on paper or text in this case, graduated and starting at the bottom of the work food chain. Haha.
In a nutshell, I have been busy with my studies for the past few years of my life and hope to come out anew with a fresh approach to life. I'm very sociable and always a good listener (or so I've been told). Once I get to know a person I'm a keeper (unless you're psycho, then I'm just an acquaintance.)
Hopefully as I talk to people, I'll develop some ability to express myself...
Oh yeah- I'm a romanticist (idealist or dreamer? Depending on the critic) and a damn loyal one at that so even if I just become a friend, it'll be hard-found of me to betray or gossip secrets (usual find people moving on instead of me leaving them. This may be a good or bad thing... XD ). Also believe that the everyone has a perfect partner out there, just gotta find that elusive person (if I'm not the one, best luck luck hunting!).
One more thing- I'm a bit on the dull/slow side (as in you can hit me with a truck-type question and it might take me a while to register)- so please don't be offended if I stare dumbly while you wait for a response.
Changing the way I look and feel about myself. School ( textbooks and lectures in particular) has such an amazing ability to make people feel down about their own abilities and building up stress... (Did I mention being a social recluse because of the house I owe Uncle Sam?)
I want to go out and experience new things and challenges; with (if possible) a partner.
So any advice and help as well as support is very welcomed!! (Not to mention if you BECOME my motivation, that's even more welcomed!)
Well, I'm very down to earth, I say what needs to be said, I don't beat the bush (unnecessarily so) does that count?
Just asked a friend, was told that their first impression was that I was a quiet guy... Not the case after day 2.
Oh yeah, people don't always guess I'm Chinese when they first see me, it's weird. I get Korean and Japanese quite often but once I was called malaysian and I almost decked the guy for his level of stupidity and horrible choice at probability.
As for movies: I love all movies. Anything with a decent plot, actor, computer graphics, or ideal/theory you can get me to sit down with you and watch (yes, girly and sappy genres included) except for horror films, i got enough of that from life.
Shows: was addicted to House MD, NCIS, now Sherlock and Bizzare Foods series (found out there might be more than 3 series already...). Hopefully broadening that to include other genres and series. Any suggestions?
Music: Anything that is understandable. so one of the few exceptions is heavy metal- sorry guys, you're out. Do prefer classical but that sounds like I'm a cheesy old man so whatever is on z100?
Food: I love food and will try out anything (with moderation of course). Only place i draw the line is extreme spicy/hot stuff and MSG because that stuff kills the natural flavors of the dish.
Going to have to add to this- CHINESE HOT SAUCE/CHILIED DISH. They are turning into chemists I swear... Those spices are no longer organic...
Also- I refuse to put a personal picture on this site if only because I already saw a classmate of mine on it. So, if you want it, msg please and you shall recieve (minus the classmate who I saw.)
edit: its now 3 classmates/friends I've seen... the world is mighty small...
Edit: 4... This number has been going up...
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