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Last online
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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Half German, half Chilean; eldest of three, and an uncle of two.

Always dapperly dressed, regardless of whether I'm engaging in work or play. My spirit is Bourbon; my beer is anything German. I believe food is the gateway to other cultures and peoples' experiences, so I will not refuse to try anything for the first time.

I don't like planning for 5 or 10 years from now (though I do recognize that now is around the time I should).

I generally live by two guiding philosophies:
1) keep low expectations, that way you're never disappointed by the outcome; and
2) if wrong, say it strong, and you can always correct it later.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professional: Work in state government. I'm kinda a not important person. . . . But in a more serious point, my passion is workplace justice and dabble in social justice, and those interests inform my execution in my professional life. More importantly, they drive my professional goals.

Personal: I like bikes and coffee. I am making a mediocre effort to re-learn German with Duolingo, and hope to move on to French after that; all while studying for the IL Bar Exam (ambitious? certainly. destined for failure? hopefully only the language part. **UPDATE** definitely the language part. ***UPDATED UPDATE*** totally failed the language part, but passed the bar part.). Also, making more of an effort to be more present in my niece and nephew's lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. And related to listening, finding the perfect moment to reference a stupid joke made in the first thirty minutes of a conversation four hours later, bringing the night to a full circle.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My bow tie; never a clip-on.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee and Open Veins of Latin America changed my life as an adolescent. Myth of Sisyphus and The Plague were important in college; as was Unbearable Lightness of Being. Also need to include Roberto Bolanos' critique of Latin American literary tradition in Savage Detectives. Hoping to try and make more time for recreational reading to divert from the mandatory work reading.

Music: Andrew Bird is tops. Born Ruffians, Spoon, Gepe, y Los Bunkers have a regular spots on the playlist as of late. I feel like since I started paying for Spotify, however, I listen to less variety of music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Blanton's; and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, and how I would not mind meeting someone who wants to distract me from it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I learned to ride a bicycle when I was 21, and I didn't get my driver's license until I was 25.