Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I originally joined OKC to get to know people and maybe date a bit,
but I really am happy where I am, and as such I rarely check this
profile. My wife and I are incredibly committed to each other, but
we have polyamorous leanings if we meet the right people.
That said, I enjoy making new friends all the time so feel free to
I do have an awesome toddler son, who is incredibly fun to be
around, so if you get to know me, you probably will eventually hear
about my kiddo as well as my wife too. Apparently that bothers some
people but they are a pretty big part of my life so it comes with
the territory. Obviously she is aware and ok with me dating and
meeting new people, and I am fine with her doing the same.
Biggest thing is I don't deal with drama. If things get
unnecessarily complex, I usually just shrug and remove myself from
the situation. I don't care about gossip or justifying my lifestyle
to anyone else, so I am pretty laid back in that regard.
When it comes to what I am looking for here is really friends now,
if things were to happen that's cool too but it isn't something
that is a priority these days.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Mostly working and then taking care of my son while my wife works,
then we switch when I work.
Other than that I am working on getting in better shape, just
watching what I eat and drink, and working out at the local
athletic club a few times a week. Feels really good to do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Separating myself from drama and high-stress situations. I don't
get involved when possible, and just let those kinds of things
I love to talk to people and get to know them, I am a great
listener and from what I have been told a fantastic cuddler.
(cheesy yes but it is true...I am very physically affectionate)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have very eclectic tastes in everything, I like a bit of all
genres of entertainment from Charles Bukowski to John Fowles in
literature from Star Trek to Troma films and from The Beatles to
Lady Gaga in music.
Favorite movie: Gremlins, bar none.
Favorite Book at the moment: House of Leaves by Mark Z Danielwski
or Going Postal by Terry Pratchett
Favorite CD at the moment: Camp by Childish Gambino
TV Series: Torchwood, Trek, Doctor Who, Being Human, Futurama,
South Park...just depends on my mood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My awesome Wife & Son
Some kind of electronic internet connected device
Something to learn
Games to play (board, card, whatever)
the ability to laugh at myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to think about.
Yeah I never really have my thoughts in the right order, they get
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Friday Night Magic doesn't run itself!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Just ask! I really enjoy answering random questions for some
reason, so pretty much if you want to know something, ask!
You should message me if
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You are looking to chat or get to know me. I am pretty easy going
and love learning about people!
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